Is Being Gay A Choice?

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Originally Posted by hi_im_god

i'd guess that most of the republicans you talk to are comfortable having a gay friend. it's amazing how knowing someone makes it more difficult to have a set of rigid doctrinaire opinions about them.

the problem is that in many parts of this country you may have gay friends but they aren't about to tell you.

very true. I dont tell people who I think may not be comfortable with it.. I havent said a word to anyone in my family - even extended family except my Mom (who guessed it and asked me) my brother (who thought it was better than me dating dudes) and my cousin who is gay. Of course my Dad knows now and two of my Uncles found out... but 80% of my extended family I havent said a word too and dont plan on it (about my sexuality of course).