I need more love advice

[TheSpyder]

Two options:

1. Get her pregnant
2. Seriously, break up with her and play hard to get if she wants to get back together. She wants her cake and eat it too meaning she likes you but is afraid of commitment. She is also afraid of rejection. The only thing you can do is let her learn commitment is better than rejection.

If she comes running back, be very slow to let her back establishing your rules. If she doesn't, she was not worth it to begin with. As someone said, she's immature. Maybe she will grow up, most likely not.

Pleantly of fish in the sea.

Also, being married 25 years, I'd give my left nut to dump my wife on V Day and go clubbing!

Spyder

[letswastemoney]

Originally Posted by TheSpyder

Two options:

1. Get her pregnant
2. Seriously, break up with her and play hard to get if she wants to get back together. She wants her cake and eat it too meaning she likes you but is afraid of commitment. She is also afraid of rejection. The only thing you can do is let her learn commitment is better than rejection.

If she comes running back, be very slow to let her back establishing your rules. If she doesn't, she was not worth it to begin with. As someone said, she's immature. Maybe she will grow up, most likely not.

Pleantly of fish in the sea.

Also, being married 25 years, I'd give my left nut to dump my wife on V Day and go clubbing!

Spyder

That sounds good.

Yeah, whenever she breaks up with me and wants me back, she goes on and on about "being afraid that I could be her husband"

and I never even mention that sort of thing!!

I'm a lot nicer than most guys, so maybe just by virtue of my nice guy personality she automatically assumes I'm going to ask her to marry her.

[Danzig]

Originally Posted by letswastemoney

That sounds good.

Yeah, whenever she breaks up with me and wants me back, she goes on and on about "being afraid that I could be her husband"

and I never even mention that sort of thing!!

I'm a lot nicer than most guys, so maybe just by virtue of my nice guy personality she automatically assumes I'm going to ask her to marry her.

for gods' sake, don't propose!

seriously tho, alone doesn't = lonely. take a deep breath, dump her and mean it, don't call her back and don't accept her calls. and yeah, it might hurt for a bit but you will get over it. temporary discomfort now is worth not playing any more games for however long.

[2MinsToPost]

- been together a month

- she is controlling so it sounds

- she wants to be away from you on valentines day

- smells funny brother, back off and let the tides roll in and out. young as you are chill and let the tide do the talkin.

I bought this shirt at Jimmy Buffet's place in Chareston, SC while on vacation in November and I love, LOVE this phrase and I think it might apply

"Breathe In,
Breathe Out,
Move On"

[AeWingnut]

going to a club on valentine's say insted of being with the one she "loves"
ha..

sounds like she has a moral code she can only sleep with other guys if she is broke up with her boyfriend.

they go away and she goes back to you

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u5Snehl2bAk

[Danzig]

Originally Posted by TheSpyder

Two options:

1. Get her pregnant
2. Seriously, break up with her and play hard to get if she wants to get back together. She wants her cake and eat it too meaning she likes you but is afraid of commitment. She is also afraid of rejection. The only thing you can do is let her learn commitment is better than rejection.

If she comes running back, be very slow to let her back establishing your rules. If she doesn't, she was not worth it to begin with. As someone said, she's immature. Maybe she will grow up, most likely not.

Pleantly of fish in the sea.

Also, being married 25 years, I'd give my left nut to dump my wife on V Day and go clubbing!

Spyder

tony and i will be married 23 years. to be honest, i never got the big deal about valentines day-if you're husband/wife is a jerk 364 days out of the year, but comes thru on V day, who cares?!

[Bigsmc]

Run away.....fast.

[declansharbor]

Originally Posted by Bigsmc

Run away.....fast.

I agree. Do your best Bolt impression.

After hearing that "im afraid you could be my husband" business, I agree with your friends.

[Scav]

Unless she has some serious funbags or the greatest chute of all time, why waste your time?

[Cannon Shell]

You are 25, the word love should not be uttered unless it has something to do with betting.

[Riot]

Originally Posted by Cannon Shell

You are 25, the word love should not be uttered unless it has something to do with betting.

Or beer.

Run from the drama queen.

[SCUDSBROTHER]

Originally Posted by Cannon Shell

You are 25, the word love should not be uttered unless it has something to do with betting.

I love Atticus Jack the next time he runs(especially if he is Gryder-free.)

[MaTH716]

Run away quicky. First thing is your 25, you have plenty of time to get incarcerated , I mean married. Why would you want to settle down now anyway? Let alone with a 21 year old hoocie that still wants to go clubbing. My guess there is that she has some single girlfriends (probably real dogs), that want to go out on V-Day because they don't want to be alone. And at this point she would rather be with her girls than you. Let me let you in on a little secret. 99.9% of women are crazy. With the exception of the few that post here and my wife (just in case she reads this), they are almost all certifiable. If you are a nice guy like you say you are, you will eventually land the big fish. But if you really have marriage on the brain, just ask yourself this question when it comes to any girl you are seeing. Is this the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with? If you have to debate the question at all, then you probably know what the answer is.

[GPK]

Originally Posted by MaTH716

Run away quicky. First thing is your 25, you have plenty of time to get incarcerated , I mean married. Why would you want to settle down now anyway? Let alone with a 21 year old hoocie that still wants to go clubbing. My guess there is that she has some single girlfriends (probably real dogs), that want to go out on V-Day because they don't want to be alone. And at this point she would rather be with her girls than you. Let me let you in on a little secret. 99.9% of women are crazy. With the exception of the few that post here and my wife (just in case she reads this), they are almost all certifiable. If you are a nice guy like you say you are, you will eventually land the big fish. But if you really have marriage on the brain, just ask yourself this question when it comes to any girl you are seeing. Is this the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with? If you have to debate the question at all, then you probably know what the answer is.

Thats it? I thought for sure it was a higher % than that.

[geeker2]

I suggest that you stalk her on Valentine's Day.

If you catch her at the club making out with another guy - ask him if he has a sister you can violate.

If you catch her at the club making out with another girl - she's a keeper!

[Antitrust32]

Originally Posted by MaTH716

Run away quicky. First thing is your 25, you have plenty of time to get incarcerated , I mean married. Why would you want to settle down now anyway? Let alone with a 21 year old hoocie that still wants to go clubbing. My guess there is that she has some single girlfriends (probably real dogs), that want to go out on V-Day because they don't want to be alone. And at this point she would rather be with her girls than you. Let me let you in on a little secret. 99.9% of women are crazy. With the exception of the few that post here and my wife (just in case she reads this), they are almost all certifiable. If you are a nice guy like you say you are, you will eventually land the big fish. But if you really have marriage on the brain, just ask yourself this question when it comes to any girl you are seeing. Is this the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with? If you have to debate the question at all, then you probably know what the answer is.

LOL... yeah you are definately married!!!

[witchdoctor]

Originally Posted by Bigsmc

Run away.....fast.

Great advise for this girl. She sounds crazy enough that you might want to get a gun for protection.