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This is a subtle use of a defense mechanism that reduces cognitive dissonance. By diminishing the stature of the messenger – the narcissist minimises the impact of the disagreement or criticism on himself. He did it more strongly last night with Fat Man: ""Yes, I was wrong about Rail Trip. Happy? I doubt it....as you are as miserable as they come." Now, after he did that, he quickly changes the subject: "Now, that we have gotten past that, try to actually make one post that is related to the actual discussion. Surely you can do this once." This is a double shift. When forced to admit something he doesn't like, he makes a definite effort to shift attention away from himself. Last edited by SCUDSBROTHER : 05-10-2010 at 10:11 PM. |
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