THE ONE FRIGGIN time...

[GenuineRisk]

Originally Posted by Scav

I mentioned going to lunch Wednesday on Monday to her...Monday and Tuesday was nice business casual, today she BROUGHT IT, some makeup and skirt with some boots, it was real serious, which is why I think it is flirting and it might go somewhere

Then for the love of Pete, ask her to dinner. If she says no, or she's busy or whatever, then you'll know. If she is genuinely busy on the weeknight you suggest, but is interested, she'll probably say, "But I am free on such-and-such night."

I know, easy for the female to say since we're not the ones who have to ask and get rejected. And may I say, kudos to all of you guys for being brave enough to do the asking! If it were left up to people like me, the human race would die out before I got up the nerve...

[Cajungator26]

Originally Posted by GenuineRisk

Then for the love of Pete, ask her to dinner. If she says no, or she's busy or whatever, then you'll know. If she is genuinely busy on the weeknight you suggest, but is interested, she'll probably say, "But I am free on such-and-such night."

I know, easy for the female to say since we're not the ones who have to ask and get rejected. And may I say, kudos to all of you guys for being brave enough to do the asking! If it were left up to people like me, the human race would die out before I got up the nerve...

Same here! I need the guy to pursue me... I'm too damn shy to make the first move (believe it or not. )

[Cajungator26]

Originally Posted by DaHoss9698

This is dead on. And kudos to you for saying it. I'm kind of a biatch when it comes to asking girls out because it is hard. Check this out, 2 weeks ago I asked a secretary at one of my clients office what they were up to on the weekend. She said she had no plans, and I asked her for her #. She gives it to me, and I called her, and she was sick. I could tell, she sounded sick. So the following week, I asked her again, and she said her and her boyfriend were going away for the weekend. Now, if you have a boyfriend, why in the hell would you give me your number?

Way too many women do that... I never could. I guess she was trying to keep her options open.

[GenuineRisk]

Originally Posted by DaHoss9698

Yeah it was one of the two things I thought. The other was that she was just interested in getting a free meal or some drinks. Not cool.

Oooh.... like I said, the kind that gives all of us women a bad name... grrrr.... you're right; very much not cool.

I was incredibly shy around guys in my single days, too, Cajun. And good heavens, if I actually liked one, I was inarticulate to the point of incoherence. Most embarrassing.

[Samarta]

Oh it's definately a game she's playing....had she not been interested she would have never asked that question because she wouldn't have been sitting across from you at lunch....so now it's time for you to play the game as well....all it is is the thrill of hunt.....the best hunters are the most patient hunters...so step away for awhile and act like you don't give two s*&^s about her busy schedule....but don't step back too far...bust her chops about being so busy from time to time just to let her know the game is on....if she's interested that schedule will have an opening soon...if this doesn't work, call Kev....just not at the otb....