Would you rather?

[Indian Charlie]

Originally Posted by Sightseek

While I'm absolutely terrified of marriage, I am naive enough to believe in happily ever after, so I do think nice guys exist. I don't think she helps herself any by the guys she likes, which is a shame because she's really cute and has a great job.

So it's not a shame if she was wasn't anything special to look at and worked at some minimum wage job?

Very interesting.

[Sightseek]

[quote=Indian Charlie]

Originally Posted by Sightseek

While I'm absolutely terrified of marriage, I am naive enough to believe in happily ever after, so I do think nice guys exist. I don't think she helps herself any by the guys she likes, which is a shame because she's really cute and has a great job.[/QUOTE]

So it's not a shame if she was wasn't anything special to look at and worked at some minimum wage job?

Very interesting.

I didn't mean it that way...what I meant was you would think guys would see her as a really great catch so it's surprising to see someone who has their act together have so much bad luck.

[Indian Charlie]

Originally Posted by Sightseek

I didn't mean it that way...what I meant was you would think guys would see her as a really great catch so it's surprising to see someone who has their act together have so much bad luck.

Yeah, I know what you meant.

Seriously though, if people keep making the same relationship mistakes, it's very obviously in what they are looking for in a person.

Some honest introspection would go a long ways in helping to make sure it doesn't happen again.

[Sightseek]

Originally Posted by Indian Charlie

Yeah, I know what you meant.

Seriously though, if people keep making the same relationship mistakes, it's very obviously in what they are looking for in a person.

Some honest introspection would go a long ways in helping to make sure it doesn't happen again.

I was trying to find a way to say this to her...

[Indian Charlie]

Originally Posted by Sightseek

I was trying to find a way to say this to her...

Why beat around the bush (so to speak)?

Just say it.

[Sightseek]

Originally Posted by Indian Charlie

Why beat around the bush (so to speak)?

Just say it.

Whether it's right or not, most girls just want to hear xyz is such a jerk, you could do so much better, blah blah.

[Indian Charlie]

Originally Posted by Sightseek

Whether it's right or not, most girls just want to hear xyz is such a jerk, you could do so much better, blah blah.

Oh yeah, I forget that about the female psyche sometimes.

I had a girlfriend that taught me once to say "I too know what it feels like to..."

[The Indomitable DrugS]

Originally Posted by Indian Charlie

Yeah, I know what you meant.

Seriously though, if people keep making the same relationship mistakes, it's very obviously in what they are looking for in a person.

Some honest introspection would go a long ways in helping to make sure it doesn't happen again.

Indian Serling?

[ddthetide]

Originally Posted by Indian Charlie

Yeah, I know what you meant.

Seriously though, if people keep making the same relationship mistakes, it's very obviously in what they are looking for in a person.

Some honest introspection would go a long ways in helping to make sure it doesn't happen again.

maybe it's not what she is looking for in a person But something that she is/ or isn't doing during the relationship, that causes the cheating.?

[Indian Charlie]

Originally Posted by ddthetide

maybe it's not what she is looking for in a person But something that she is/ or isn't doing during the relationship, that causes the cheating.?

Well.

Maybe.

Then again, if she is failing to do something it's his responsibility to communicate that to her instead of running off to cheat.

If that doesn't work, leave.

[ddthetide]

Originally Posted by Indian Charlie

Well.

Maybe.

Then again, if she is failing to do something it's his responsibility to communicate that to her instead of running off to cheat.

If that doesn't work, leave.

i completely agree!