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in·fat·u·a·tion n. A foolish, unreasoning, or extravagant passion or attraction. See Synonyms at love. An object of extravagant, short-lived passion. ad·dic·tion n. Compulsive physiological and psychological need for a habit-forming substance: a drug used in the treatment of heroin addiction. An instance of this: a person with multiple chemical addictions. The condition of being habitually or compulsively occupied with or or involved in something. An instance of this: had an addiction for fast cars.
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Most people that are compulsive anything have brains that are wired to need some type of stimulation. Many compulsive gamblers are actually competition junkies. The money means nothing to them. The boredom though is often what causes addicts to go back to their addiction. That boredom must be replaced with something (usually competitive) or the mind tells the individual that they need to go back to the old habits. I am a compulsive golfer. The guy next to me is a compulsive chess player. The other guy is addicted to video games. Most people on chat sites are addicted to them. The brain likes the stimulation. Try going 30 days without posting on a chat site and see what your brain does. People are animals, just like monkeys. Habit controls everything. As William James notes, "We are mere bundles of habit" nothing more. |
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I'm addicted to placebos. I'd give them up, but it wouldn't do any good.
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Everyone has addictions and some sort of addiction is healthy. But with any addiction, you have to be able to control it. You cant let it get in the way of your family, work, bills etc etc. People are addicted to working, running, lifting weights, eating, bike riding etc etc. You just have to find a way to control it. People who are not able to control the addiction they have are the ones that need help. But we all gamble (lack of a better word) with our addiction consuming us.
Seattle--good luck my friend and if you ever need anything please let me know. |
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Im off to the coastline to hunt the regal redfish. Kayak and open water. Let it fill my soul. Got to get outside with the birds and the gentle lapping of water. Multiple interests are good.... and bad. |
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Good Luck Seattle. Glad to see you are getting help. PM me if ya wanna talk. I have been busy at work but I will get back to you eventually.
My advise, ride the horses instead of gambling on them. Start taking riding lessons.
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Pat,you are a lot like my Dad.You are both addicted to moderation.He and my Mom escape the heat each Summer,and go live in an R.V. on the upper Oregon Coast. We are talking easily amused here.That is special for a day and a half,but somehow they can stay there for 2 months doing God knows what (to stay sane.)How much reading can you do? |
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Scuds, I can't think of anything I'd rather do. Take my bike and borrow a kayak, go out to some empty Northwest coast and spend the summer in a cabin doing nothing but reading, writing, hiking...(sigh)...I love the city, but part of me belongs to empty places, too.
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