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Old 07-26-2006, 09:30 PM
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Good answer GR....I have little to add except for the fact that mental illness is simply not understood in our culture. A person gets cancer or has a stroke and we are (usually) compassionate, understanding and caring. Someone is psychotic, depressed or delusional and we think it's somehow their fault or they are play-acting, or somehow a "bad" person. I don't want to offend anyone but it's ignorance like that holding mankind back! I guess we've come somewhat forward from the days when a mentally ill person was thought to be possessed by some mythological "devil" and tortured to death...but then, today, I read posts like on this board calling for some pound of flesh and I think...you never know when to expect the Inquisition! Oral Roberts talks to his god and he's a great man with his own college...Joan of Arc was burned at the stake, and most folks today are judged insane...doesn't seem to be a pattern! All I know is this...command auditory hallucinations are not usually a good thing but theyt are very very powerful to those experiencing them...I'm not sure how folks can judge others without the experience to do so?!
True, true. If there is any good at all to be found out of this horrible, awful tragedy, it's that post-partum depression has received much attention as a result and perhaps women who are suffering, even if not as severely as Andrea Yates, will be able to get help. Even so, mental illness is still poorly understood in this culture-- you are so right about that.
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Old 07-26-2006, 09:39 PM
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well yeah, I don't have the background that you two have so my opinion is based strictly on EMOTION and not Facts as they lie. I see your point and it is well received. Thank goodness these days I am open to learning and understanding and not black and white.

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Old 07-26-2006, 09:49 PM
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well yeah, I don't have the background that you two have so my opinion is based strictly on EMOTION and not Facts as they lie. I see your point and it is well received. Thank goodness these days I am open to learning and understanding and not black and white.
Curt,
Let me tell you...I was angry as HELL about the deaths of those kids...her own children!!! My own emotions told me to say, "Kill her the same way she killed her kids."
Then, I heard a small voice inside that said, "There's more to this than you understand, Wayne."

So, it's really not for me to judge.
The more I see, the less black or white exists...only shades of grey.

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Old 07-26-2006, 10:33 PM
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The jury realized the torture the entire family is going thru. This lady probably wants to die on alternate days anyway. Nothing worse could be done to all involved. Jury is giving her a chance to live without constant suffering. She will suffer for the rest of her life, maybe it will be tolerable some days. One can only hope. A totally sad situation.
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Old 07-27-2006, 06:44 AM
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I found it remarkable that her husband supported the ruling, too -- there aren't many people in the middle of things like this who could see the "bigger picture" and recognize what's legitimately best for all involved.

I worked in prisons, too, although in more of an outreach/tutoring capacity and not for nearly as long as you, Somer...but it's amazing how much your perspective changes when you spend time behind those walls. I have a really difficult time explaining it to people who've never been there...but my views on incarceration are considerably more thought-out and nuanced than they would ever be if I hadn't seen it. It's one of the most hidden-away parts of society, and I'm not sure that's right.
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Old 07-27-2006, 09:57 AM
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I found it remarkable that her husband supported the ruling, too -- there aren't many people in the middle of things like this who could see the "bigger picture" and recognize what's legitimately best for all involved.

I worked in prisons, too, although in more of an outreach/tutoring capacity and not for nearly as long as you, Somer...but it's amazing how much your perspective changes when you spend time behind those walls. I have a really difficult time explaining it to people who've never been there...but my views on incarceration are considerably more thought-out and nuanced than they would ever be if I hadn't seen it. It's one of the most hidden-away parts of society, and I'm not sure that's right.
I agree totally! People hear about the cable TV and the "special treatment" and some of that does indeed go on and is frustrating but the big picture...the one where decent folks are turned into animals, isn't seen. Loss of freedom is the price one pays for violating the laws of society but subjecting folks to brutality should never be acceptable! There are a lot of good people who work in our prisons, it takes a strong will to step through those gates every day...but the environment is NOT one of rehabilitation but learning to be more vicious, more uncaring, more dangerous...and when those folks get out, and most do...we've done nothing but created our own monsters! And sending mentally ill folks into that world....well, it's simply wrong!
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Old 07-28-2006, 09:02 AM
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Just caught up on this thread, ive been occupied posting other garbage. I'll try to stop Frosty. Anyways,it is well known among the mental health community that Andrea Yates had a long documented history of schizophrenia before she ever drowned her children. She was also highly delusional at the time of the crime. This is not like the ****ing Twinkie defense, this is legitimate. I feel much better that her initial trial verdict of guilty is now modified. It isn't that she just had postpartum depression she had untreated schizophrenia. Postpartum depression is an afterthought. I don't think she should go free guys, but I do believe she is very different than most people who commit murder.
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Old 07-27-2006, 07:11 AM
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well yeah, I don't have the background that you two have so my opinion is based strictly on EMOTION and not Facts as they lie. I see your point and it is well received. Thank goodness these days I am open to learning and understanding and not black and white.
And your compassion for those poor kids was obvious in every line of your email-- your rage at their deaths was completely understandable. For a lot of us, mental illness can be a very hard thing to wrap one's thoughts around because it's so completely outside our own realm of experience.

And life does seem to be one long learning process, doesn't it? For all of us.
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