Ever been tired of being married???????

[Mortimer]

I find it valuable to know there may be no limits if this thread was combined with the pick 6 thread.

[Storm Cadet]

Ask the therapist for a RX of these! They help my patients!

Seriously though, try to seek out professional help (counseling TOGETHER), not just you alone. You both must be open about any problems that might exist and work out the differences. And you'll see if the differences are too great in staying together or not! Good luck my friend!

[Mortimer]

ror!





But HellsAngels Club Presidents can't wear hats.

[hoovesupsideyourhead]

the fact you ask on a message board is not good...if she puts up with you your lucky..she is a bears fan im sure so ..

[2Hot4TV]

In 34 years of marriage ( all to the same loving wife) i have learned that we don't change things that we don't like about one another, but you can learn to deal with them so they don't send you ape **** all the time. Life is too short to be unhappy all the time so I guess the only advice is to fix it or change it. Good Luck.

P.S. I prefer to fix whats broke rather than starting all over.

[Mortimer]

Let's stop treating this obfuscation as real.


If it were real it would be in the esoteric thing.








Really though......enough tincup advise.

[Storm Cadet]

Originally Posted by Cajungator26

SOME men can figure things out on their own... most can't. It used to bother me that I had to ask for something when it was plainly obvious what I needed. If you don't care enough about your wife to read what she's saying to you, then cut her a break. Seriously. As for you being her source of entertainment, you're right... you shouldn't have to be but maybe... just maybe... you'd want to be. Unfortunately, I'm getting the impression that you've already quit and trust me, she knows it.

So now we come to the real question... do you love her? Did you mean what you said to her when you said "I do?" It's not looking like it. I realize it takes two to tango, but if you two aren't a team, your marriage is going to fail. I guarantee it.

I agree here's an example of a good team in action:

[Hickory Hill Hoff]

Originally Posted by 2Hot4TV

In 34 years of marriage ( all to the same loving wife) i have learned that we don't change things that we don't like about one another, but you can learn to deal with them so they don't send you ape **** all the time. Life is too short to be unhappy all the time so I guess the only advice is to fix it or change it. Good Luck.

P.S. I prefer to fix whats broke rather than starting all over.

I've become quite a "handyman" in this aspect...but you know what they say, "Jack of all trades, master of none"!

[horseofcourse]

No, I've never been tired of being married to answer the question on top. You always need someone to carry the beverages. With 4 kids, you're just tired...period. Really no time to even think about being tired of being married...and the beverage carrier remains essential at all times! And add in the 4 kids, a heckuva lot more hands to carry the beverages! It's all good that married life!

[Downthestretch55]

Wow, this thread reads like the DT soap opera. Wonder what happened to "sad story" and her tale of woe.
By the way, if anyone is looking for a really good deal on a slightly used female sheep named Bahbahbaby.....

[Buffymommy]

Never been tired of being married. Been married seven years. Hubby can get on my nerves, but I never want him to not be there.


Packer,
You need to talk to your wife. Maybe she feel like an old shoe to you. Rekindle some romance. But also, maybe it sounds as though she doesn't have a life of any sort where you are living now. She needs to find her "THING" that makes her happy. She is using you for that now. She is maybe having a hard time in her life and you not understanding that is probably hurting her more. As Cajun said, "TALK TO HER"