as they did on Friends, if you could make..

[Danzig]

Originally Posted by Buffymommy

a list of FIVE people that your spouse/significant other would allow you to cheat with if you had the chance, who would they be?

(Just a fun little topic because I am in a very silly mood today!)


I will start it off:

1. Matthew MacFayden
2. Michael Weatherly
3. David Boreanez
4. Eric Dane
5. Dominic Purcell

you're kidding, right? forgive me for sounding prudish, but i don't give a damn what someone looks like. there's nothing out there that would make me want to cheat. what a silly thread!

sorry for being a party pooper!

[timmgirvan]

Originally Posted by Danzig

you're kidding, right? forgive me for sounding prudish, but i don't give a damn what someone looks like. there's nothing out there that would make me want to cheat. what a silly thread!

sorry for being a party pooper!

You're not alone,Zeig! It's OK to look once...the 2nd time's a killer!

[somerfrost]

Originally Posted by timmgirvan

You're not alone,Zeig! It's OK to look once...the 2nd time's a killer!

Oh come now, if this thread isn't for you, why respond? Buffy stated from the beginning that it's a fun thread, I'm not delusional enough to think I'd ever have a chance with any of the 30 women I named...anybody who claims to "not notice" a beautiful woman or handsome man (depending on which you like) is lying! I respect people and I named the women I did because I enjoy their performances and yes, I find them beautiful. There is nothing crude or immoral about that! Timm, you have sure been quick to criticize folks that you disagree with...and now you find a problem with some of us giving compliments to folks we enjoy???

[timmgirvan]

Originally Posted by somerfrost

Oh come now, if this thread isn't for you, why respond? Buffy stated from the beginning that it's a fun thread, I'm not delusional enough to think I'd ever have a chance with any of the 30 women I named...anybody who claims to "not notice" a beautiful woman or handsome man (depending on which you like) is lying! I respect people and I named the women I did because I enjoy their performances and yes, I find them beautiful. There is nothing crude or immoral about that! Timm, you have sure been quick to criticize folks that you disagree with...and now you find a problem with some of us giving compliments to folks we enjoy???

That not the case at all,Somer! Although I understand your need to defend the thread, I'm just pointing out that it's a waste of time to dream about a laison with the people listed. Like I said.....the first look is free..the 2nd is a killer! That is my experience,Somer....and I shared it. That's ok with you, isn't it?

[Cajungator26]

Originally Posted by Danzig

you're kidding, right? forgive me for sounding prudish, but i don't give a damn what someone looks like. there's nothing out there that would make me want to cheat. what a silly thread!

sorry for being a party pooper!

When I was married I felt the same, D...

It's too bad he didn't feel the same way.

[timmgirvan]

Originally Posted by Cajungator26

When I was married I felt the same, D...

It's too bad he didn't feel the same way.

Cajun: thanks for explaining the happily married POV! That was my point!

[hi_im_god]

Linda Ellerbee circa 1979
Marianne Dixon circa 1994
Rosemary Deyoe circa 1997
Isabella Rosselini whenever
Theresa Stroeser today

[somerfrost]

Originally Posted by timmgirvan

Cajun: thanks for explaining the happily married POV! That was my point!

So Timm, you "understand my need to defend this thread"...why is that exactly? I didn't start it, I'm merely pointing out that some folks are a bit inconsistant at times. And by your last comment, are you saying Buffy isn't happily married? She started it as a fun thread...you certainly can have any opinion of it or her or me that you wish...I'm just amused by your responses!

[timmgirvan]

Originally Posted by somerfrost

So Timm, you "understand my need to defend this thread"...why is that exactly? I didn't start it, I'm merely pointing out that some folks are a bit inconsistant at times. And by your last comment, are you saying Buffy isn't happily married? She started it as a fun thread...you certainly can have any opinion of it or her or me that you wish...I'm just amused by your responses!

This is a fun thread...just relax! btw...I noticed that I was the one you questioned although I wasn't the first to comment in questioning the thread. Seems to me you are overly sensitive to my posts. I try to respond to your posts based on their merit to the thread or my opinion as such. You could do the same as well

[Cajungator26]

Look guys... there's nothing wrong with being married and thinking that someone else is attractive. It was supposed to be a funny thread and I'm fairly certain that Buffy is happily married to her husband. When I was married, the thought of cheating never crossed my mind, but that's just the kind of person that I am. I don't think any of this was meant to be literal.

[timmgirvan]

Originally Posted by Cajungator26

Look guys... there's nothing wrong with being married and thinking that someone else is attractive. It was supposed to be a funny thread and I'm fairly certain that Buffy is happily married to her husband. When I was married, the thought of cheating never crossed my mind, but that's just the kind of person that I am. I don't think any of this was meant to be literal.

Works for me!

[Danzig]

Originally Posted by Cajungator26

Look guys... there's nothing wrong with being married and thinking that someone else is attractive. It was supposed to be a funny thread and I'm fairly certain that Buffy is happily married to her husband. When I was married, the thought of cheating never crossed my mind, but that's just the kind of person that I am. I don't think any of this was meant to be literal.

i notice attractive men. i just don't automatically make the good looking/want to have sex connection....
no doubt it was meant in fun, i said in my first post i was well aware i was being a prude and a party pooper!! never told anyone not to respond, and i also know that just because i feel a certain way shouldn't mean others don't or can't.

and somer, just because i don't post in a similar vein in this thread, doesn't mean i have no right to post, right?

[somerfrost]

Originally Posted by timmgirvan

This is a fun thread...just relax! btw...I noticed that I was the one you questioned although I wasn't the first to comment in questioning the thread. Seems to me you are overly sensitive to my posts. I try to respond to your posts based on their merit to the thread or my opinion as such. You could do the same as well

Now you're telling me to relax? I was having a good time until you and Mrs Z came along with the wet blankets. I responded to your post cause it was the first in line and shortest to quote...or I simply like her better than you, take your pick! Again, we were having fun then suddenly we were visited by the morality police!


Boy, it's a good thing that I didn't list Jenna Jameson and Marilyn Chambers...oops, I just did!

[timmgirvan]

Originally Posted by somerfrost

Now you're telling me to relax? I was having a good time until you and Mrs Z came along with the wet blankets. I responded to your post cause it was the first in line and shortest to quote...or I simply like her better than you, take your pick! Again, we were having fun then suddenly we were visited by the morality police!

It's easy to see that Danzig posted first,but you responded to mine instead! No problem there...it's not like we're living together. Painfully obvious that you reject most authority...but you knew that...you're the social worker...which is an admirable career.