That is exactly why I havn't gotton married yet. I will do it one time and I will be sure it is right the 1st time. I have seen it happen with my friends and it never ends pretty. I did not want that to happen to me. I hear my friends complain about thier "baby momma" drama and I just have to thank myself for not falling into that. I want to ask them, why? Why did you produce a child with someone who has no ambition and will never amount to much. Duh, now they will be forever linked to them. It goes the other way as well. I have dated women w/ kids and I don't think 1 single one of the fathers are worth a crap. It kills me to see a father that considers thier child a burden. They dread every other weekend when they have to take them for a few days. Then they take them and sit em in front of the playstation all weekend to keep them occupied. I want to have a child myself and when I do, I will be there every step of the way, just like my parents were.
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