Is Being Gay A Choice?

[dalakhani]

I agree with God's point on this. I think sexuality is fluid. I know a girl (previously strictly lesbian as far as I knew) who is now dating a transexual male. Very much in love. She met her boyfriend via an ad and placed the ad in search of a relationship with a male transexual.

What does that make her? She is having heterosexual sex with a transexual male.

Sex is fluid. I am not a lesbian but if you left me alone with Antritrust long enough you never know . I have found women to be attractive...but that doesnt make me a lesbian. And if I did try it once (only with lori!), would that make me a lesbian going forward? Would my 30 some odd years of hetero-life be thrown aside for a single daliance?

I find it odd that society is so intent on throwing out labels. Timmi, Im sure Steve Byk would be flattered if he knew that you found his voice to be cool and that you like the way he wears his hats. And if one night after one too many budweisers (nice manly beer!) and listening to ATR and BEYOND you found yourself "really" admiring Steve, it wouldn't make you "gay".