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Old 12-02-2009, 11:20 AM
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I'm more concerned about the authorities covering up a dui/domestic abuse case.
F the Police.

well I guess its true.. and a real shame. I really dont expect men to stay faithful to thier women, whether you are rich or poor, men think of sex differently than women do. But this is real disappointing. Unfortunately, it most likely wont change my opinion of him and I'm still rooting for him to set all the records.
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Old 12-02-2009, 11:42 AM
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F the Police.

well I guess its true.. and a real shame. I really dont expect men to stay faithful to thier women, whether you are rich or poor, men think of sex differently than women do. But this is real disappointing. Unfortunately, it most likely wont change my opinion of him and I'm still rooting for him to set all the records.
Thats a shitty attitude. We're not all scum.
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Old 12-02-2009, 11:45 AM
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F the Police.

well I guess its true.. and a real shame. I really dont expect men to stay faithful to thier women, whether you are rich or poor, men think of sex differently than women do. But this is real disappointing. Unfortunately, it most likely wont change my opinion of him and I'm still rooting for him to set all the records.

my husband stays true, faithful. the 'men can't help it' line is incorrect. anyone can exert self-control.
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Old 12-02-2009, 12:41 PM
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my husband stays true, faithful. the 'men can't help it' line is incorrect. anyone can exert self-control.

They can help it for sure. Most just choose to do it anyway. IMO. Sorry Gander.. dont take it personally... thats they way I feel though.
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Old 12-02-2009, 12:45 PM
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They can help it for sure. Most just choose to do it anyway. IMO. Sorry Gander.. dont take it personally... thats they way I feel though.
Aunty, If you had to guess, what do you think the percentage is of married men that cheat?
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Old 12-02-2009, 12:50 PM
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That voicemail is fantastic, and undoubtedly actually Tiger Woods' voice. At least the girl he's hosing is above the Steve Phillips realm of ladies.
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Old 12-02-2009, 12:56 PM
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Aunty, If you had to guess, what do you think the percentage is of married men that cheat?
I think a lot depends on what age you are when you get married and maturity.

I wouldn't be surprised if 75% of young married men (in their 20's) cheated or slipped up once.

I would expect men who marry in their 30's and older to be more ready for marriage and the commitment.. maybe more like 40% of them.

I doubt the percentage of serial cheaters is too too high.. maybe 15% cheat whenever they get the chance and are always looking for the next one.

Women would be opposite though.. I would guess 30-50% of women have cheated at some point.. but I would expect older women to cheat more than younger women.

People get used to the relationship, they have children.. settle into the family life.. only getting laid by their spouse a few times a year cause the "spark" is gone.. and when someone else showers them with affection, people do the wrong thing. Some couples are married for a LONG LONG time..


I'm all for open marraiges or relationships or whatever.. as long as both people are completely okay with it and it doesnt get out of control.
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Old 12-02-2009, 12:57 PM
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75%?
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Old 12-02-2009, 01:05 PM
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75%?

Um lets see here.. something like 54% of marraiges end in divorce.. so count 54% there.. and most arent even caught!

75% may be a little high.. but no way would I put it lower than 60%. and remember thats the young crowd, tons of marriages start for the wrong reasons anyway.
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I think a lot depends on what age you are when you get married and maturity.

I wouldn't be surprised if 75% of young married men (in their 20's) cheated or slipped up once.

I would expect men who marry in their 30's and older to be more ready for marriage and the commitment.. maybe more like 40% of them.

I doubt the percentage of serial cheaters is too too high.. maybe 15% cheat whenever they get the chance and are always looking for the next one.

Women would be opposite though.. I would guess 30-50% of women have cheated at some point.. but I would expect older women to cheat more than younger women.

People get used to the relationship, they have children.. settle into the family life.. only getting laid by their spouse a few times a year cause the "spark" is gone.. and when someone else showers them with affection, people do the wrong thing. Some couples are married for a LONG LONG time..


I'm all for open marraiges or relationships or whatever.. as long as both people are completely okay with it and it doesnt get out of control.
So that means the majority of women are whores.
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Old 12-02-2009, 01:08 PM
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So that means the majority of women are whores.

oh they totally are. thats not even a question!
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I think a lot depends on what age you are when you get married and maturity.

I wouldn't be surprised if 75% of young married men (in their 20's) cheated or slipped up once.

I would expect men who marry in their 30's and older to be more ready for marriage and the commitment.. maybe more like 40% of them.

I doubt the percentage of serial cheaters is too too high.. maybe 15% cheat whenever they get the chance and are always looking for the next one.

Women would be opposite though.. I would guess 30-50% of women have cheated at some point.. but I would expect older women to cheat more than younger women.

People get used to the relationship, they have children.. settle into the family life.. only getting laid by their spouse a few times a year cause the "spark" is gone.. and when someone else showers them with affection, people do the wrong thing. Some couples are married for a LONG LONG time..


I'm all for open marraiges or relationships or whatever.. as long as both people are completely okay with it and it doesnt get out of control.
I think your percentages are definitley of the high side.
I do agree with your thinking as far as the guys getting married very young eventually cheating.
But I disagree with your serial cheating thinking. My feeling is once they do it and get away with it, then eventually start thinking that they could do it whenever they want and always get away with it.
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Old 12-02-2009, 01:17 PM
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Is it worse for a man to cheat on his woman or a woman to cheat on her man? Or equal?

My married buddy (got married @ 19 y/o cause of pregancy) told me "As a man, its the ultimate disrespect to have your woman cheat on you" but he felt very different about him cheating on her. said "its natural"
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Old 12-02-2009, 02:53 PM
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I think a lot depends on what age you are when you get married and maturity.

I wouldn't be surprised if 75% of young married men (in their 20's) cheated or slipped up once.

I would expect men who marry in their 30's and older to be more ready for marriage and the commitment.. maybe more like 40% of them.

I doubt the percentage of serial cheaters is too too high.. maybe 15% cheat whenever they get the chance and are always looking for the next one.

Women would be opposite though.. I would guess 30-50% of women have cheated at some point.. but I would expect older women to cheat more than younger women.

People get used to the relationship, they have children.. settle into the family life.. only getting laid by their spouse a few times a year cause the "spark" is gone.. and when someone else showers them with affection, people do the wrong thing. Some couples are married for a LONG LONG time..


I'm all for open marraiges or relationships or whatever.. as long as both people are completely okay with it and it doesnt get out of control.
maybe tony and i are the exception, but you couldn't be further from the truth there. and yes, it's a shame that some couples fall into that-or the wife tells hubby she isn't interested anymore, or vice versa. but there are plenty of us out there who treat our husbands like kings, and they treat us like queens. and it's GREAT. i wouldn't give up tony for anything, ever. we make sure we keep each other first.
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They can help it for sure. Most just choose to do it anyway. IMO. Sorry Gander.. dont take it personally... thats they way I feel though.
I don't group all men into the category of cheaters, but when I bartended in an upscale club it was sickening how many married men openly cheated on their wives and how it was accepted by everyone around them.

The worst was when you would actually see these guys out with their wives the next week and everyone would act like it wasn't a big deal.
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Old 12-02-2009, 01:13 PM
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I don't group all men into the category of cheaters, but when I bartended in an upscale club it was sickening how many married men openly cheated on their wives and how it was accepted by everyone around them.

The worst was when you would actually see these guys out with their wives the next week and everyone would act like it wasn't a big deal.
I dont know why any married man would go to a club in the first place? As someone who is married and aware and respectful what that word means, its the last place in the world I want to be. I mean its like going shopping with no money or credit cards. Why bother? I would say most married men who frequent upscale clubs do so with the intent to cheat, why else would they possibly put themselves in such a stupidly precarious situation.
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I dont know why any married man would go to a club in the first place? As someone who is married and aware and respectful what that word means, its the last place in the world I want to be. I mean its like going shopping with no money or credit cards. Why bother? I would say most married men who frequent upscale clubs do so with the intent to cheat, why else would they possibly put themselves in such a stupidly precarious situation.
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I got divorced once, and in so far as I know, it had nothing to do with infidelity; we really just didn't like each other.
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That voicemail is SO COMEDY!!

http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrityn...ng-you-2009212

This chick isn't even that hot, I wouldn't kick her out of bed but still Tiger, my brotha, gotta do it better if this is how you are going to roll.
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I dont know why any married man would go to a club in the first place? As someone who is married and aware and respectful what that word means, its the last place in the world I want to be. I mean its like going shopping with no money or credit cards. Why bother? I would say most married men who frequent upscale clubs do so with the intent to cheat, why else would they possibly put themselves in such a stupidly precarious situation.
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