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Old 01-27-2009, 08:38 PM
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all i know is in one month, to have already included multiple break-ups, the word 'love' and marriage--you both need to run. in opposite directions of course.
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Old 01-27-2009, 09:56 PM
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all i know is in one month, to have already included multiple break-ups, the word 'love' and marriage--you both need to run. in opposite directions of course.
Well I'll give more backstory I guess. I met her last February in a class at my university. I dated her twice maybe last Spring but it didn't work out.

Then months went on and I didn't message her until....December. I saw that she was still on my Facebook profile so I messaged her saying, "Just delete me, and let's forget about each other."

And it had the opposite affect, she wanted to see me again, and that's how it started again, after all those months of not speaking to each other.
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Old 01-27-2009, 10:12 PM
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Well I'll give more backstory I guess. I met her last February in a class at my university. I dated her twice maybe last Spring but it didn't work out.

Then months went on and I didn't message her until....December. I saw that she was still on my Facebook profile so I messaged her saying, "Just delete me, and let's forget about each other."

And it had the opposite affect, she wanted to see me again, and that's how it started again, after all those months of not speaking to each other.
You want some brutally honest advice?
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Old 01-27-2009, 10:26 PM
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You want some brutally honest advice?

My opinion? You're both too f*cking needy and too young to be tied down to one person. Your 25 dude.
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Old 01-28-2009, 05:40 AM
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Well I'll give more backstory I guess. I met her last February in a class at my university. I dated her twice maybe last Spring but it didn't work out.

Then months went on and I didn't message her until....December. I saw that she was still on my Facebook profile so I messaged her saying, "Just delete me, and let's forget about each other."

And it had the opposite affect, she wanted to see me again, and that's how it started again, after all those months of not speaking to each other.
Dump her Today! move on and don't look back. sounds like you both need to grow up.
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Old 01-28-2009, 06:25 AM
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She has issues with her Dad who hates or is mean to her. Find out about it and you'll know how to play it and whether she's worth it. May have been abused is some way.
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Old 01-28-2009, 06:34 AM
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She has issues with her Dad who hates or is mean to her. Find out about it and you'll know how to play it and whether she's worth it. May have been abused is some way.
then she needs therapy, not a boyfriend.
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Old 01-28-2009, 11:21 AM
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She has issues with her Dad who hates or is mean to her. Find out about it and you'll know how to play it and whether she's worth it. May have been abused is some way.
She's already told me her parents didn't want her as a kid....she lives with some guy who she calls her dad...I think it's her uncle....
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Old 01-28-2009, 11:23 AM
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oh my god.

lets-delete her phone # right after you call and dump her. trust me. don't get sucked into being sir galahad rescuing a damsel in distress.
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She's already told me her parents didn't want her as a kid....she lives with some guy who she calls her dad...I think it's her uncle....
Dude, don't you realize that this is the kind of baggage/issues that you are going to have to deal with for the rest of your life. Or at least until she murders you.
GET OUT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 01-27-2009, 10:18 PM
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I am with Hossey on this - but don't have any kids.
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Old 01-27-2009, 10:19 PM
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You both sound a little crazy. I say stay with her.
Why are you only Predator Jr when the top predator has left us? I nominate Hossy for King Predator....
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Old 01-27-2009, 10:22 PM
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Why are you only Predator Jr when the top predator has left us? I nominate Hossy for King Predator....

I am with Scav on this-but don't have any kids.
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You both sound a little crazy. I say stay with her.


excellent point. They need to stay together. why screw up two other people's lives.
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You should probably ask Dagulla, he strikes me as someone who would give good relationship advise.
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