well that puts a cherry on top....

[Danzig]

Originally Posted by wac

on a friggin horrible day. did not cash one tix at CD and the girl that ive been going out with for over a year says she doesnt want to marry me so that is a prety sweet day. i hope those on here did a hell of a lot better them me. im taking off till spring b/c i am totally out of the zone right now.

did she completely shoot the idea down? i mean as far as in the future? was it a never answer, or i'm not ready right now? if she said not now, than i see no reason for an ending....if she is not interested ever, than it's good that you asked now, rather than say three years down the road.
i'm a firm believer in happy endings. if she isn't the one, someone else will be.
and of course there's no way to lessen the pain, you have to 'mourn' and then move on. er, unlike one guy around here that is....
good luck, be patient til the pain goes away.