here it goes...

[jcs11204]

i cant go that route, thats not me going and talking and opening up... i have been thinking about just venting on here, and that took 6 months....i care about my sons more then her, but i cant help that i love her.... i cant control my feelings, what will a theripist do? he cant make me not love her, so i dont know, its just a bad situation

[GBBob]

Originally Posted by jcs11204

i cant go that route, thats not me going and talking and opening up... i have been thinking about just venting on here, and that took 6 months....i care about my sons more then her, but i cant help that i love her.... i cant control my feelings, what will a theripist do? he cant make me not love her, so i dont know, its just a bad situation

you are just being selfish then if you won't try. There are no easy answers to your problem, but I can promise you that talking to a therapist would help you.

good luck

[geeker2]

tell me you had a normal childhood....Dad and or Mom drink? divorced? any childhood trama? soemone die when you were young? Mom or Dad left you?
Molested?

see a therapist...and good luck..

[jcs11204]

Originally Posted by geeker2

tell me you had a normal childhood....Dad and or Mom drink? divorced? any childhood trama? soemone die when you were young? Mom or Dad left you?
Molested?

see a therapist...and good luck..

normal... mom and dad are together, no one drunks, lol..... no childhood trama, no one died.... not molested, were you serious with that ?