DT Gals: Attracted to 'Bad Boys'?

[Grits]

Interesting topic. Adding my counsel here.

DON'T be attracted to BAD BOYS. They're BAD, but more importantly, they're BROKE. Don't bother with 'em.

[Cajungator26]

Originally Posted by Grits

Interesting topic. Adding my counsel here.

DON'T be attracted to BAD BOYS. They're BAD, but more importantly, they're BROKE. Don't bother with 'em.

I think they need to provide the definition of what they consider "bad boys." If you consider a man who rides around on his Harley all day with a beard, body odor, covered in tattoos and piercings a "bad boy", then I most certainly am NOT attracted to bad boys. Generally speaking, I'm attracted to men who are well spoken, opinionated (as I can be ), enjoy the outdoors and horses (hard to find) and who are NOT big drinkers. I also will not put up with dishonesty in a relationship... I can handle a lot of things, but I loathe liars. I'd rather hear the truth at all cost... even if it's not what I want to hear.

Edit:

I should also mention that I love motorcycles. I just don't care for what most people consider "typical" bikers. Kev: You'll be sexier than ever on a Harley.

[Grits]

Originally Posted by Cajungator26

I think they need to provide the definition of what they consider "bad boys." If you consider a man who rides around on his Harley all day with a beard, body odor, covered in tattoos and piercings a "bad boy", then I most certainly am NOT attracted to bad boys. Generally speaking, I'm attracted to men who are well spoken, opinionated (as I can be ), enjoy the outdoors and horses (hard to find) and who are NOT big drinkers. I also will not put up with dishonesty in a relationship... I can handle a lot of things, but I loathe liars. I'd rather hear the truth at all cost... even if it's not what I want to hear.

Edit:

I should also mention that I love motorcycles. I just don't care for what most people consider "typical" bikers. Kev: You'll be sexier than ever on a Harley.

Again, the guy riding around all day on a Harley, whether he is bathed, tattooed or not, if he has a job he couldn't be on his Harley all day.

If he has a job, he's not broke.

Cajun, you have a lot of requirements, a job should be at the top of the list, without it one has no means to entertain you. Keep this in mind.

A job is much sexier than a Harley Davidson.

The only job a girl should have is one that blows.

[Grits]

Originally Posted by Pillow Pants

The only job a girl should have is one that blows.

That's always a draw, something every woman wants to hear.

Originally Posted by Grits

That's always a draw, something every woman wants to hear.

Shouldn't you be in the kitchen makin' me a sammich?

[Grits]

Originally Posted by Pillow Pants

Shouldn't you be in the kitchen makin' me a sammich?

No, I don't think so. Sammich? LOL

[Cajungator26]

Originally Posted by Grits

Again, the guy riding around all day on a Harley, whether he is bathed, tattooed or not, if he has a job he couldn't be on his Harley all day.

If he has a job, he's not broke.

Cajun, you have a lot of requirements, a job should be at the top of the list, without it one has no means to entertain you. Keep this in mind.

A job is much sexier than a Harley Davidson.

There are plenty of men who own motorcycles that ride them to work (I didn't mean riding around all day literally.) And while I DO expect a man to have a job, I don't expect a man to take care of me... I have a full time job and I've managed to take care of myself just fine. I'd love to make more money, but I take pride in my independence and would never be ok with being a gold digger. I also was unaware that expecting honesty in a relationship with a non-binge drinking man who has a brain (and who likes horses ) was considered a lot of requirements. Believe me, I'm not picky, but I've been in a few lousy relationships (including a marriage) that have helped me to understand what I DO need in a relationship.

[Sightseek]

Originally Posted by Cajungator26

There are plenty of men who own motorcycles that ride them to work (I didn't mean riding around all day literally.) And while I DO expect a man to have a job, I don't expect a man to take care of me... I have a full time job and I've managed to take care of myself just fine. I'd love to make more money, but I take pride in my independence and would never be ok with being a gold digger. I also was unaware that expecting honesty in a relationship with a non-binge drinking man who has a brain (and who likes horses ) was considered a lot of requirements. Believe me, I'm not picky, but I've been in a few lousy relationships (including a marriage) that have helped me to understand what I DO need in a relationship.

I say hit it rich and find a younger Patrick Dempsey, Tim McGraw or Leo DiCaprio look-alike (all hot in their own way, depending on your preference ) and keep him at home cleaning, cooking, taking care of your horses and YOUR every last need.

[Cajungator26]

Originally Posted by Sightseek

I say hit it rich and find a younger Patrick Dempsey, Tim McGraw or Leo DiCaprio look-alike (all hot in their own way, depending on your preference ) and keep him at home cleaning, cooking, taking care of your horses and YOUR every last need.

Damn, if only I could find one who is single!

Originally Posted by Cajungator26

Damn, if only I could find one who is single!

This guy is...

[Sightseek]

Originally Posted by Cajungator26

Damn, if only I could find one who is single!

Pretty hard to imagine that Ronald Miller, in Can't Buy Me Love, would turn into that!

[Grits]

Originally Posted by Cajungator26

There are plenty of men who own motorcycles that ride them to work (I didn't mean riding around all day literally.) And while I DO expect a man to have a job, I don't expect a man to take care of me...

That's cleared up and that's good.

In life, we, as women, should never expect anyone to take care of us, but we do. Its part of why we enter into relationships. We take care of them, and they in return, readily and willingly, do the same for us. And it is because we WANT to, they WANT to.

Actually that is probably what everyone, or most, hope for. Finding that particular individual.

I have a full time job and I've managed to take care of myself just fine. I'd love to make more money, but I take pride in my independence and would never be ok with being a gold digger.

And what you describe, this is success. Few women though, readily admit, "I'm a gold digger". Bad form and all that.

I also was unaware that expecting honesty in a relationship with a non-binge drinking man who has a brain (and who likes horses ) was considered a lot of requirements. Believe me, I'm not picky, but I've been in a few lousy relationships (including a marriage) that have helped me to understand what I DO need in a relationship.

You do have a lot of requirements, sound ones. But weighing them is necessary. Choose what is most important. And bad relationships teach us a lot, hopefully. Unless though, we are stubborn and prone to continue in making the wrong choices. In such cases, we cause ourselves pain.

[Grits]

The man in the above photograph. He's 7 months pregnant.

EDIT: WITH TWINS

[Cajungator26]

Originally Posted by Grits

The man in the above photograph. He's 7 months pregnant.

EDIT: WITH TWINS

LMFAO!!!

Too damn funny...

[Cajungator26]

Originally Posted by Grits

In life, we, as women, should never expect anyone to take care of us, but we do. Its part of why we enter into relationships. We take care of them, and they in return, readily and willingly, do the same for us. And it is because we WANT to, they WANT to.

Actually that is probably what everyone, or most, hope for. Finding that particular individual.

I guess I'm not coming across very clear today... not enough rest last night. I meant that I don't expect a man to take care of me monetarily. I don't need someone to pay all of my bills for me, etc. You're 100% correct in that I hope to find someone who WANTS to come home to me at night and wants to take care of me when I'm sick, depressed etc. I've dated men with money (this last relationship for example), but that isn't what I need to be happy. I never quite fit into the 'pit lizard' role with the bling bling ring, $200 jeans and 4 inch high heels in the garage. That's just not me.

[Grits]

Originally Posted by Cajungator26

You're 100% correct in that I hope to find someone who WANTS to come home to me at night and wants to take care of me when I'm sick, depressed etc.

And you will.

Money does not make us happy. It makes us comfortable, it makes life go down a little easier; but no, it doesn't make us happy.

[GPK]

Originally Posted by Cajungator26

I think they need to provide the definition of what they consider "bad boys." If you consider a man who rides around on his Harley all day with a beard, body odor, covered in tattoos and piercings a "bad boy", then I most certainly am NOT attracted to bad boys. Generally speaking, I'm attracted to men who are well spoken, opinionated (as I can be ), enjoy the outdoors and horses (hard to find) and who are NOT big drinkers. I also will not put up with dishonesty in a relationship... I can handle a lot of things, but I loathe liars. I'd rather hear the truth at all cost... even if it's not what I want to hear.

Edit:

I should also mention that I love motorcycles. I just don't care for what most people consider "typical" bikers. Kev: You'll be sexier than ever on a Harley.

if I get any sexier...it will be illegal.

[Cajungator26]

Originally Posted by GPK

if I get any sexier...it will be illegal.

You're right... it's a crime to be that sexy.

[GPK]

Originally Posted by Cajungator26

You're right... it's a crime to be that sexy.

dont tell everything you know babe...

and scuds says I am a bad boy....since I cant keep it in the road that appears straight to others...