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slotdirt 12-02-2009 11:50 AM

That voicemail is fantastic, and undoubtedly actually Tiger Woods' voice. At least the girl he's hosing is above the Steve Phillips realm of ladies.

Antitrust32 12-02-2009 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by MaTH716
Aunty, If you had to guess, what do you think the percentage is of married men that cheat?

I think a lot depends on what age you are when you get married and maturity.

I wouldn't be surprised if 75% of young married men (in their 20's) cheated or slipped up once.

I would expect men who marry in their 30's and older to be more ready for marriage and the commitment.. maybe more like 40% of them.

I doubt the percentage of serial cheaters is too too high.. maybe 15% cheat whenever they get the chance and are always looking for the next one.

Women would be opposite though.. I would guess 30-50% of women have cheated at some point.. but I would expect older women to cheat more than younger women.

People get used to the relationship, they have children.. settle into the family life.. only getting laid by their spouse a few times a year cause the "spark" is gone.. and when someone else showers them with affection, people do the wrong thing. Some couples are married for a LONG LONG time..


I'm all for open marraiges or relationships or whatever.. as long as both people are completely okay with it and it doesnt get out of control.

hockey2315 12-02-2009 11:57 AM

75%? :rolleyes:

Antitrust32 12-02-2009 12:05 PM

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Originally Posted by hockey2315
75%? :rolleyes:


Um lets see here.. something like 54% of marraiges end in divorce.. so count 54% there.. and most arent even caught!

75% may be a little high.. but no way would I put it lower than 60%. and remember thats the young crowd, tons of marriages start for the wrong reasons anyway.

Coach Pants 12-02-2009 12:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Antitrust32
I think a lot depends on what age you are when you get married and maturity.

I wouldn't be surprised if 75% of young married men (in their 20's) cheated or slipped up once.

I would expect men who marry in their 30's and older to be more ready for marriage and the commitment.. maybe more like 40% of them.

I doubt the percentage of serial cheaters is too too high.. maybe 15% cheat whenever they get the chance and are always looking for the next one.

Women would be opposite though.. I would guess 30-50% of women have cheated at some point.. but I would expect older women to cheat more than younger women.

People get used to the relationship, they have children.. settle into the family life.. only getting laid by their spouse a few times a year cause the "spark" is gone.. and when someone else showers them with affection, people do the wrong thing. Some couples are married for a LONG LONG time..


I'm all for open marraiges or relationships or whatever.. as long as both people are completely okay with it and it doesnt get out of control.

So that means the majority of women are whores.

hockey2315 12-02-2009 12:07 PM

So all divorces are caused by infidelity?

Wow. . . learn something new every day.

Antitrust32 12-02-2009 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Coach Pants
So that means the majority of women are whores.


oh they totally are. thats not even a question!

Antitrust32 12-02-2009 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by hockey2315
So all divorces are caused by infidelity?

Wow. . . learn something new every day.


I would be willing to bet in almost all divorces either the man or woman strayed at one point. It could have been the reason for the divorce or it could have been when "they were struggling with the relationship".

When you dont love or really care for your partner anymore.. I'm sure that makes cheating much easier.

Gander 12-02-2009 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Sightseek
I don't group all men into the category of cheaters, but when I bartended in an upscale club it was sickening how many married men openly cheated on their wives and how it was accepted by everyone around them.

The worst was when you would actually see these guys out with their wives the next week and everyone would act like it wasn't a big deal.

I dont know why any married man would go to a club in the first place? As someone who is married and aware and respectful what that word means, its the last place in the world I want to be. I mean its like going shopping with no money or credit cards. Why bother? I would say most married men who frequent upscale clubs do so with the intent to cheat, why else would they possibly put themselves in such a stupidly precarious situation.

MaTH716 12-02-2009 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Antitrust32
I think a lot depends on what age you are when you get married and maturity.

I wouldn't be surprised if 75% of young married men (in their 20's) cheated or slipped up once.

I would expect men who marry in their 30's and older to be more ready for marriage and the commitment.. maybe more like 40% of them.

I doubt the percentage of serial cheaters is too too high.. maybe 15% cheat whenever they get the chance and are always looking for the next one.

Women would be opposite though.. I would guess 30-50% of women have cheated at some point.. but I would expect older women to cheat more than younger women.

People get used to the relationship, they have children.. settle into the family life.. only getting laid by their spouse a few times a year cause the "spark" is gone.. and when someone else showers them with affection, people do the wrong thing. Some couples are married for a LONG LONG time..


I'm all for open marraiges or relationships or whatever.. as long as both people are completely okay with it and it doesnt get out of control.

I think your percentages are definitley of the high side.
I do agree with your thinking as far as the guys getting married very young eventually cheating.
But I disagree with your serial cheating thinking. My feeling is once they do it and get away with it, then eventually start thinking that they could do it whenever they want and always get away with it.

MaTH716 12-02-2009 12:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Gander
I dont know why any married man would go to a club in the first place? As someone who is married and aware and respectful what that word means, its the last place in the world I want to be. I mean its like going shopping with no money or credit cards. Why bother? I would say most married men who frequent upscale clubs do so with the intent to cheat, why else would they possibly put themselves in such a stupidly precarious situation.

:tro: :tro:

Antitrust32 12-02-2009 12:17 PM

Is it worse for a man to cheat on his woman or a woman to cheat on her man? Or equal?

My married buddy (got married @ 19 y/o cause of pregancy) told me "As a man, its the ultimate disrespect to have your woman cheat on you" but he felt very different about him cheating on her. said "its natural"

slotdirt 12-02-2009 12:17 PM

I got divorced once, and in so far as I know, it had nothing to do with infidelity; we really just didn't like each other.

Scav 12-02-2009 12:18 PM

That voicemail is SO COMEDY!!

http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrityn...ng-you-2009212

This chick isn't even that hot, I wouldn't kick her out of bed but still Tiger, my brotha, gotta do it better if this is how you are going to roll.

MaTH716 12-02-2009 12:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Antitrust32
Is it worse for a man to cheat on his woman or a woman to cheat on her man? Or equal?

My married buddy (got married @ 19 y/o cause of pregancy) told me "As a man, its the ultimate disrespect to have your woman cheat on you" but he felt very different about him cheating on her. said "its natural"

You buddy is an idiot.

Scav 12-02-2009 12:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Antitrust32
Is it worse for a man to cheat on his woman or a woman to cheat on her man? Or equal?

My married buddy (got married @ 19 y/o cause of pregancy) told me "As a man, its the ultimate disrespect to have your woman cheat on you" but he felt very different about him cheating on her. said "its natural"

It is all about understanding. I would love to roll like AK47 (Andrei Kirelenko), on his birthday, he gets to bang a random chick every year, his wife BUYS the girl for him.

Now that is how to roll.

Sightseek 12-02-2009 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Scav
That voicemail is SO COMEDY!!

http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrityn...ng-you-2009212

This chick isn't even that hot, I wouldn't kick her out of bed but still Tiger, my brotha, gotta do it better if this is how you are going to roll.

!!!!

I think he has a secret liking to the dirrrrty type.

Antitrust32 12-02-2009 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by MaTH716
You buddy is an idiot.


i agree but I wonder how many other guys feel the same way.

I dont know how it is for the older generations, but sex is kinda like brushing your teeth for the younger generations. The #'s and %'s are only getting worse. Maybe it has something to do with religion having less and less influence on the American generations, but it could just be TV & entertainment.

Scav 12-02-2009 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Antitrust32
i agree but I wonder how many other guys feel the same way.

I dont know how it is for the older generations, but sex is kinda like brushing your teeth for the younger generations. The #'s and %'s are only getting worse. Maybe it has something to do with religion having less and less influence on the American generations, but it could just be TV & entertainment.

It isn't TV and entertainment. People just know more about it, more educated, and they know if you wrap up you get to party and have some fun.

Antitrust32 12-02-2009 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Scav
It isn't TV and entertainment. People just know more about it, more educated, and they know if you wrap up you get to party and have some fun.


I dont know... sex is ALL over TV, magazines, all people care about is the sex lives of the famous.. open internet explorer and you may see some "big butt latin girls doing DP".

Sex doesnt have much meaning to many younger people anymore. Its just something to do to "get a nut"


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