what gets me (well, there are several things) is that people say how the teen 'should' be acting/grieving. hello, unless you've gone thru the same thing, how would anyone presume to know how they'd handle it?!
and one of the commenters was right-people do watch too many law and order type shows. i remember reading an article a few years back, where prosecutors and others were complaining that juries expect cases in real life to mirror tv. yeah, cause tv is reality.
