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Originally Posted by Danzig188
i just find anymore that so many take the tack that men aren't necessary. the dumbing down of men in america is disgusting to me. commercials that portray women as sooooo smart, while men are nothing but neanderthals is disturbing in the least. i think this is the one of the ugly things that feminism has given us as a society, the idea that you 'sell your soul' as a woman if you marry and actually enjoy being with your partner!! that if you find ways to compromise, you're selling out...it's crazy. tony and i hear a lot from other people that they wish they could have what we have--it's not quite as hard as some seem to think it is. find a decent person to start off with--not someone you have to fix or change! cause believe me, you can't change anyone.
hope you don't think i was attacking you with my response, it's one of my pet peeves...
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See, I'm a little bit sore at men right now because I just got out of a really bad relationship. A horrible relationship, and I was engaged. I thought I could change someone, and you are so right when you said that you can't.
I am going to take some time off before I get seriously involved with anyone (even though I seriously like this new guy) because I don't want to take the frustrations of my last relationship out on the next one. It's fun being single anyway, and I'm only 21. After a while, I know that I am going to want to get back into a serious relationship with someone though. Don't get me wrong with my previous post, I'm a very romantic and passionate person, and I believe in true love 110%.
You're very lucky to have that kind of love. I hope that each and every single one of us are able to find it one day.