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Originally Posted by DerbyCat
Honu, do you want "we the people" to be able to decide if you can be an exercise rider based upon your sexual orientation? How does who you love have anything to do with how you do your job? It doesn't, it should be irrelevant. But there are still enough people who, for religious reasons, don't think gays should be able to do a lot of things... get married, adopt children, work in the military, etc. They shouldn't get to decide what you or anyone else does for a living or how you live your life. I wouldn't trust any aspect of my life to a vote - no majority should be able to say, you can't marry the person you love, you can't give a child a loving home, and you can't work with straight people just because WE don't like what you do with your personal life.
I am legally married to a woman here in California, how many DTers have had their marriage fall apart because of that fact? How many of their children have had nightmares and have to go through therapy because of my marriage? How many people that I know have had this happen to them? Not a single one. But that's the fear. We're still at least a generation removed from where being gay won't matter, until then any vote having to do with "gay rights" is no sure thing.
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Jeez do you really think Im that simple? Maybe you do but my job in the private sector has nothing to do with military policy. The policy is and has been established that gays are not allowed in the services and yet WE still signup for whatever reason. That being said doesnt mean its right but at this point we are allowing the politicians to dictate who serves and who doesnt, not us the people. I am in a domestic partnership, but even before that in my relationship I felt no diffirent than when we were just living together than I do now, but that is just me. I have a right to work in the private sector with no discrimination, but this is not how it is in the military, its called the military for a reason because it is not a democracy. You are to follow orders and so forth and until the American people let their elected officials know that they dont give a crap about who serves it will just be forever a political move.