Let him be. You can't help him until he hits bottom and asks for help. Don't enable him but he has no interest in your opinion of his habit or his mothers opinion either. The only thing he wants is another fix. Sad but true 99% of the time. As a matter of fact I can guarantee that if or when you try to help he lashes out at you, tells you that you dont know what you are talking about, that he has things under control and he didn't like that job anyway. Remember that people who are addicted dont think like the rest of us and their view of the world is far different than the reality of it.
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