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Originally Posted by SCUDSBROTHER

I don't think you want to be told to leave her. If you could do that, then you would of done that. You want to know how to stop liking her, or get her to like you enough to spend Valentine's Day with you etc. etc. You make it seem like you could leave the situation. I don't believe that, but if that's true, then do it (leave yesterday.) Don't say you'll put up with her being with someone else on Valentines Day. She wants you to get upset with that. She's looking for that strength from you. She wants you to tell her no. Tell her it's over (if she doesn't spend it with you.) Keep doing that. Keep getting mad at her(and she with you,) and making up with her. That's what she feels comfortable with. That's her normal, or what she likes. Argue, make-up, and afterglow...repeat, repeat, repeat. You like her. So, that's how to get her to keep liking you. She ain't right(but you know that.) Like I said, leave the situation (if you can.) If you're stuck on her, then do what I said. Don't be nice all the time(that's boring to her.) When she comes back(after the arguing) then be nice. Let her make the 1st move on the making up. She's done this before with you. It's what she likes.

Scuds, I didn't know you had it in you. The nail has been struck, right on the head.