Lovemaking???? What is that. After a couple of kids and marriage I forgotten what love making is. I prob wouldnt be able to find the right hole. Who knows were it would end up. Plus, how can I do that when I have Oct 7th on my mind. When I handicap, I like to have a mountain dew, a pen in my mouth, a pen in my hand and a bowl of cheerios getting soggie. I played baseball in college and I learned to totally tune out everything. Or maybe I can do that because I am married with kids. I think men have the capability of tuning things out.