1) Forget the gambling aspect of this. Just be responsible. As long as you are responsible, there is no need to complicate this by bringing gambling into it.
2) You can't do anything to make her want to come back. So don't try. The only thing you can do is push her away, which as sure as ****, you will do if you keep calling her. And NEVER question her actions, UNLESS it directly pertains to the kids. For instance, don't bring up the rap music thing.
3) Assume the relationship with her is over. In all likelihood, as soon as you move on, she will come back. But by then you won't care.
4) Dude, be prepared. It will likely get worse before it gets better. BUT IT WILL GET BETTER.
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