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Originally Posted by SCUDSBROTHER
I am not trying to say that no women want to have sex with someone that isn't their partner.The great majority of prostitution in this country involves men hiring prostitutes.There is some prostitution and porn geared to women.Not nearly as much as for men.I know my mom is like Zig.She can't see why a man would want to look at anyone other than their partner.She has no clue why men are that way.When I go to the house,my Dad is always trying to hide some internet PORN site or something from her.Old man seemed to get a thrill out of watching that thing where women broadcast the news while naked...I knew there was a market for that somewhere...LOL...There is a big difference between the 2.Very different drives.
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let's clarify a few things....
first of all, i know that men are very much into the visual, while women are not. that's why more often women want the light off, and men want the light on. as for porn, i wouldn't equate porn with cheating. we've gotten playboy for the length of our marriage-i joke that i read the articles, while he looks at the pics. a friend of mine (whose husband is her burden thankfully) asked me if i minded tony looking at playboy. i laughed and told her no-her hubby on the other hand gets old lady mags, fat lady mags, etc which we both find pretty horrifying....but anyway, that stuff is not a bother to me. we have stuff we watch together, but he doesn't do online stuff...
like nicole said, it's a choice. you don't put yourself in a bad situation, you don't encourage anyone who might show an interest, and you let people know off the bat that it's not your game. tony and i are proud of what we've got, and we want to keep it that way. a momentary thrill elsewhere just wouldn't be worth it.