In 34 years of marriage ( all to the same loving wife) i have learned that we don't change things that we don't like about one another, but you can learn to deal with them so they don't send you ape **** all the time. Life is too short to be unhappy all the time so I guess the only advice is to fix it or change it. Good Luck.
P.S. I prefer to fix whats broke rather than starting all over.
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