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Originally Posted by packerbacker7964
I'm finding it harder everyday in my life to be married. I keep finding things in our marriage that I don't like and dweeling on them really hard. She's really done no wrong to me just keeps getting on my nerves. I like to play softball on Friday night and like to wtach the other games I'm not involved. She gets mad when I want to hang out when My games are over. She wants to be with me all of the damn time also. 24/7 when I'm not working. I tell her to go out with her friends and have fun but oh no she doesn't want to be with them. People need to be away from one another every once in a while. I've told her I'll send you and 1 or 2 of your friends to a weekend Spa just so I can have some time to be alone. I work all week long 50-60 hours a week and 6-7 days a week. When I get off I don't want to go some where every weekend. Sometimes lets just stay home. NNNNNNNOOOOOO she's got places to go and people to see. I love her to death but I'm starting to want to be single so I don't have to please her all of the time. Sorry for the rant guys have a good week.
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My take on this is there is something else driving your "feelings." What has changed in your home life? You know it's a compromise. You like to play softball, you go play softball, but when you are finished playing you pack it up and leave. It's not that hard, if you want to be in and respect the relationship. But do yourself a favor, don't start finding reasons in her that you shouldn't be in the relationship. If you are having issues, it's not her fault. But you have to sit down and talk about it. And when I say talk, I mean lay it out there, get it all out, and get over yourself.