That's the very question I answered.

You may not like the answer ... but there you have it.

You'll be a much happier person if you stop wallowing in self-pity ... and stop attributing your misfortunes to others.

No one has ever rolled out the red carpet for any immigrants who have come to this country ... including my grandparents ... nor should they have. It's up to you to make a satisfying life for yourself and the ones you love ... make the most of it ... because there never has been a better time or place to do so than in the United States in 2006.

Good luck ... and happy 4th.