somer, just because you do your job, and are good at it, does not mean ALL psychiatrists are! don't take it personally, or get defensive, when questions are asked! like the joke says, what do you call the guy who graduated last in his class at medical school? doctor!
i was asking questions, as are a lot of people. i didn't claim to know everything, nor did i bash psychology as tom cruise did. so thanks for answering my thoughts, and questions--you helped a whole lot.
there were so many red flags thrown by this guy over the years--i just don't understand what it takes. he was on anti-depressants, so obviously under someone's care. and if roommates, laymen--can see this guy had a problem, why didn't the professionals?? THAT is what i'm asking.