Dementia And Sex
 

What's a nursing home to do when the inmates mate?

http://www.bloomberg.com/news/2013-0...sing-home.html

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get the cameras rollin"
get the action goin

more more more.....how do you like it? how do you like it ?

I found this article interesting b/c of the idea of how a nursing home is supposed to respond to consenting adults who are also demented. I have no idea what the correct answer is but with people living longer you are going to see more of this.

If you make it to that age you can do whatever the hell you want to. Including drive a car or get laid.

Q: What kind of son tells his Dad his mom had sex with another man, hours BEFORE her death?

A: One that wants to file a lawsuit.

:$:

no.
other people are at risk when someone who has no business driving gets behind the wheel.

no, if you see an elderly person on the road, it's on you to drive accordingly. Blue hairs especially.

Not when my kid is riding their bike and said old person hits them

A lot easier to unzip one's pants or raise one's dress compared to finding keys, determining which key is to the car, finding the right car and all that before the car even moves.

For dementia patients maybe a sex-doll for every male resident and pocket rocket for every female resident could be the solution. What's one more page for Obamacare to force insurance providers to cover such? ;):wf

'better to be thought a fool than to open one's mouth and remove all doubt'



as for sex in nursing homes, i still don't get why people are surprised. the people living there are old, not dead. of course they're going to have sex. seniors are one of the groups showing higher instances of stds and aids.

besides, when you put your folks in a raisin ranch that hires mostly poorly trained minimum wage workers, while the profits go to the owners, do you really expect good care?

I like your avatar, Danzig.

If he didn't tell him for nine months don't you think it might have been something he wrestled with?

Maybe it was just timing or maybe he knew she was having her last day on this earth and thought it was important for his dad to know to forgive her or something along those lines.

thanks. great whites are awesome!

hoping to go to the west coast next year...and would love to go out and get in a shark cage, and see one up close.

:tro:

What I really think is he didn't tell his Dad till after her death, like a normal son would and the attorney they hired came up with the bed side confession, similar to a work comp plaintiff attorney sending the claimant to excessive doctor's appointments. It's all about the :$::$:.

Your scenario reads more like a made-for-TV movie.

alot more young drivers hit kids on bikes than the elderly

Thank you for telling us what "a normal son" would have done and for perpetuating the oh-so-cliché attorney as ambulance chaser mentality.

Regarding what I said about how maaaaybe his actions were related to some sense of letting his dad know so she could die with his forgiveness or without secrets? I mean I really don't know and was just throwing it out there.

I held my sisters hand while she died in October and am forced to relive it every day because my dad has Alzheimer's and calls me demanding to know why I haven't taken him to visit her lately. There are days when I can hardly think straight. My point in going in to that is who knows what life was like for the son. I can't have been easy for him so if and when he chose to tell his dad I would imagine it was a painfully stressful decision.

I'm starting to feel like there are so many reality shows that it's carried over into people getting a sense of entitlement in their voyeurism. Do you know what I mean? That's fine for you to think the way you do ("normal son") but don't act like it's the only possibility here... like you know what's what, I don't and you have to talk down to and correct me.

In many cases the elderly driver is not easily identified from a distance. Should we paint their Buicks a specific color?

Strange bringing up reality TV as though Honey Boo Boo and the Swamp people are a source of entitlement but I thought your scenario, (son sobbing) "Dad, I know mom is dying and all but I have to get something off my chest. Mom had sex while in the nursing home" sounds a bit out the norm, almost like a bad soap opera rather than made-for-TV movie.

I wasn't correcting or talking down to you. Simply making an observation. Just as I'm shocked your ex-husband let you get away. :zz:

Wow my ex husband? Really?

If you're trying to huwt my widdwe feewings you failed miserably.

Speaking of miserable sorry if you're a little, bitter man with a micropenis but please take don't your hostility out on me.