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Riot 05-09-2012 05:33 PM

So let's vote on same sex marriage
 
Private poll, pick one that best represents your own opinion

Danzig 05-09-2012 06:37 PM

please. there was no vote on 'straight' marriage, and none is needed now. you can't confer rights to some and not others. it's that simple. you don't have to like it, agree with it, or think the bible says one thing or another.

Riot 05-09-2012 07:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Danzig (Post 859517)
please. there was no vote on 'straight' marriage, and none is needed now. you can't confer rights to some and not others. it's that simple. you don't have to like it, agree with it, or think the bible says one thing or another.

But if you're a Republican, you pass it into law to force your opinion on "rights" upon others.



Blue: where same sex marriage is legal
Pink: Statute bans same-sex marriage
Red: Constitution bans same-sex marriage
Maroon: Constitution bans same-sex marriage and some or all other kinds of same-sex unions

You can see the whole map defined here:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Same-se...tates_by_state

AlreadyHome 05-09-2012 07:19 PM

gay people got issues
 
its written in the Bible a man and woman marry and becomes 1,

a lot of people thinks is ok same sex marriage, "WRONG"

gay people got issues they should seek god and repent of their sins

no1 is born gay, some how they transform or experiment and the make the choice to be gay

IMO is nasty, somehow gays got brainwash
.
this is a touchy subject wtf is this world coming too.

one goes to the park with the kids and they see 2mans kissing and touching
how do 1 explain to a child gayness, is so wrong wow :zz:

all i have2 say is gay people, god sees everything weather you in the closet or out, so do whats right repent and live a real life.

i don't have anything against gay people is your choice to be gay
but thas not a real life.

Riot 05-09-2012 08:02 PM

Fox News website posters flip out
 
LOL ... Fox News trying to desperately spin Obama's support for gay marriage, this way:

"Obama Flip Flops, declares War on Marriage".

Seriously?

"War on Marriage"?

Oh, Fox News, so fair and balanced ... :D

And the comments section? Flipping out.

AlreadyHome 05-09-2012 08:14 PM

vote
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Riot (Post 859535)
LOL ... Fox News trying to desperately spin Obama's support for gay marriage, this way:

"Obama Flip Flops, declares War on Marriage".

Seriously?

"War on Marriage"?

Oh, Fox News, so fair and balanced ... :D

And the comments section? Flipping out.


Obama says

dellinger63 05-10-2012 11:05 AM

Personally I'm for number 2.

However I would never want my personal view to affect a view a State I don't live in may have.

10th Amendment > Gay Marriage

BTW How do I block RIOT's polls in addition to her posts?

Clip-Clop 05-10-2012 11:16 AM

Marriage has always had a religious tone to me. I would prefer a hetero civil union option given the choice. Not such a hassle to get out of, why can't straight couples have the same opportunities as gays!!???

bigrun 05-10-2012 01:24 PM

Stewart's take on gay Obama and NC..


http://www.thedailyshow.com/full-epi...2-john-r--hall

jms62 05-10-2012 01:41 PM

Where is the option for?

Let's address this issue when we have Less than 4% unemployment, no active wars and a defecit cut in half.

bigrun 05-10-2012 01:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jms62 (Post 859664)
Where is the option for?

Let's address this issue when we have Less than 4% unemployment, no active wars and a defecit cut in half.


That would be never of course, which is your point...If you put that restriction on all threads, there would be no threads here...:)

jms62 05-10-2012 01:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bigrun (Post 859669)
That would be never of course, which is your point...If you put that restriction on all threads, there would be no threads here...:)

My snide comment was not directed at the thread it was directed at our government.

bigrun 05-10-2012 02:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jms62 (Post 859671)
My snide comment was not directed at the thread it was directed at our government.


Scoosa me...but the answer would be the same...it would never be addressed..

Riot 05-10-2012 02:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dellinger63 (Post 859617)
Personally I'm for number 2.

However I would never want my personal view to affect a view a State I don't live in may have.

10th Amendment > Gay Marriage

BTW How do I block RIOT's polls in addition to her posts?

You don't click on them, then comment in the thread, then leave with an ad hominem to try and cover your rude ass, because you decided to click into the thread and participate.

Life: way too hard for Dell to figure out :p

Riot 05-10-2012 02:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jms62 (Post 859671)
My snide comment was not directed at the thread it was directed at our government.

Did you see Romney in Colorado yesterday? He had a press event, and the reporter came with questions from specific electronic audience members ("this question is from Jim Smith, who would like to know your opinion on ... ") She listed their name, then the question. Romney got pissed the questions were on social issues, rather than the economy, but then attacked the reporter. It was not a good thing.

We need to count the non-economic bills the House has passed, and compare them to the economic bills they've passed over the past couple of years. Go Tea Party!

Danzig 05-10-2012 02:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jms62 (Post 859664)
Where is the option for?

Let's address this issue when we have Less than 4% unemployment, no active wars and a defecit cut in half.

many of us can multi-task. altho some items on the agenda may have more importance to the general population than others, they are still important. they still matter.

equal rights for all in this country is one of it's most basic tenets, and what the country was created for to begin with. when people don't have rights that are conferred on others, that's a huge problem, and should never happen here.

Riot 05-10-2012 02:42 PM

Romney apologizes for bullying in high school, and bullying gays
 
This is what happens to you - stuff from high school is pulled up - when you are running for President on a platform of passing a constitutional amendment outlawing gay marriage.

Bullying = "hijinks and pranks"? Tell that to current teen suicides.

Good lord. This man has zero soul.

Here's the Washington Post original on his teen bullying: http://www.washingtonpost.com/politi...KFU_print.html

Here's the fallout starting:

Quote:

Romney Apologizes For Bullying In Prep School, Says He Didn't Know Victim Was Gay

Sam Stein
Posted: 05/10/2012 12:06 pm Updated: 05/10/2012 12:32 pm

WASHINGTON -- Mitt Romney made a surprise appearance on Fox host Brian Kilmeade's radio show Thursday morning to respond to a lengthy Washington Post story on his time as a prep-school prankster and occasional bully of closeted gay students.

"They talk about the fact that I played a lot of pranks in high school," Romney said. "And they describe some that you just say to yourself, back in high school I just did some dumb things and if anybody was hurt by that or offended by it, obviously I apologize."

“I participated in a lot of hijinks and pranks during high school and some might have gone too far and for that, I apologize," he added.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/0...n_1506382.html

Riot 05-10-2012 02:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bigrun (Post 859657)
Stewart's take on gay Obama and NC..


http://www.thedailyshow.com/full-epi...2-john-r--hall

LOL - that was brilliant! And on the stupid NC ballot measure: "Now heterosexual couples in North Carolina will suffer the same lack of rights that gays have always experienced".

OldDog 05-10-2012 03:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Riot (Post 859705)
This is what happens to you - stuff from high school is pulled up - when you are running for President on a platform of passing a constitutional amendment outlawing gay marriage.

Bullying = "hijinks and pranks"? Tell that to current teen suicides.

Good lord. This man has zero soul.


Here's the Washington Post original on his teen bullying: http://www.washingtonpost.com/politi...KFU_print.html

Here's the fallout starting:

Romney Apologizes For Bullying In Prep School, Says He Didn't Know Victim Was Gay

Sam Stein
Posted: 05/10/2012 12:06 pm Updated: 05/10/2012 12:32 pm

WASHINGTON -- Mitt Romney made a surprise appearance on Fox host Brian Kilmeade's radio show Thursday morning to respond to a lengthy Washington Post story on his time as a prep-school prankster and occasional bully of closeted gay students.

"They talk about the fact that I played a lot of pranks in high school," Romney said. "And they describe some that you just say to yourself, back in high school I just did some dumb things and if anybody was hurt by that or offended by it, obviously I apologize."

“I participated in a lot of hijinks and pranks during high school and some might have gone too far and for that, I apologize," he added.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/0...n_1506382.html

From the link:
"The idea that Romney, as the presumptive GOP presidential nominee, holds the same mindset now as he did in his prep school days is, of course, absurd. People change, including Obama who had, until Wednesday, spent several years in public life opposing same-sex marriage."

Obama changed, too, from his alcohol bingeing, pot smoking, coke snorting high school daze, to what we now see before us. I don't even believe he eats dogs any more.

Coach Pants 05-10-2012 03:10 PM

People don't change. Except mixed race democrats. Especially ones that are 1/1024th Native American.

Riot 05-10-2012 03:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by OldDog (Post 859716)
From the link:
"The idea that Romney, as the presumptive GOP presidential nominee, holds the same mindset now as he did in his prep school days is, of course, absurd. People change, including Obama who had, until Wednesday, spent several years in public life opposing same-sex marriage."

Obama changed, too, from his alcohol bingeing, pot smoking, coke snorting high school daze, to what we now see before us. I don't even believe he eats dogs any more.

IOKIYAR

Riot 05-10-2012 04:03 PM

New one question test for American citizenship and voting rights:

"All men are created equal".

1) True
2) False

bigrun 05-10-2012 04:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Riot (Post 859734)
New one question test for American citizenship and voting rights:

"All men are created equal".

1) True
2) False


Not according to my wife...;)

Riot 05-10-2012 04:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bigrun (Post 859742)
Not according to my wife...;)

Good for her ;) :tro:

bigrun 05-10-2012 05:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Riot (Post 859713)
LOL - that was brilliant! And on the stupid NC ballot measure: "Now heterosexual couples in North Carolina will suffer the same lack of rights that gays have always experienced".


And Kenya is saying Obama was born in Ghana...:D

Antitrust32 05-11-2012 08:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dellinger63 (Post 859617)
Personally I'm for number 2.

However I would never want my personal view to affect a view a State I don't live in may have.

10th Amendment > Gay Marriage

BTW How do I block RIOT's polls in addition to her posts?

so what you are saying is that if the majority of a state wants to make a law banning interracial marriage, that is okay because of the 10th amendment?

what happened to the part of the constitution which seperates church and state?

what happened to Majority rule cannot oppress minority rights?


these laws that have been passed by states are unconstitutional. they go against the definition of america.

Danzig 05-11-2012 08:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Antitrust32 (Post 859910)
so what you are saying is that if the majority of a state wants to make a law banning interracial marriage, that is okay because of the 10th amendment?

what happened to the part of the constitution which seperates church and state?

what happened to Majority rule cannot oppress minority rights?


these laws that have been passed by states are unconstitutional. they go against the definition of america.

:tro:

OldDog 05-11-2012 09:12 AM

Question (and I'm not being snide)

If the laws being passed by states are unconstitutional, why is Obama affirming the issue as a states' rights issue? Given that he has come out in favor of gay marriage, why doesn't he (his DOJ) challenge them?

Antitrust32 05-11-2012 09:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by OldDog (Post 859931)
Question (and I'm not being snide)

If the laws being passed by states are unconstitutional, why is Obama affirming the issue as a states' rights issue? Given that he has come out in favor of gay marriage, why doesn't he (his DOJ) challenge them?

it will happen where it is supposed to happen. The Supreme Court.

Obama doesnt have absolute power. Though he has advised the DOJ to NOT defend DOMA (which takes away marriage rights and benefits to gay couples). Apparently house republicans just passed some bill that requires the DOJ to defend DOMA.

Coach Pants 05-11-2012 09:18 AM

He wasn't saying sh.it. Nothing will change. He was pandering to the idiots who support gay marriage that don't have the capacity to decipher bulls.hit.

And there are plenty of them.

Antitrust32 05-11-2012 09:21 AM

I cannot support modern day republicans. They want to spend like democrats but say they dont, and also are complete ass holes while they are at it. I'm too fiscally conservative to support democrats.

This is how I feel about politics:

Hello? Hello? Hello?

Is there anybody in there?
Just nod if you can hear me.
Is there anyone at home?
Come on now
I hear you're feeling down.
Well I can ease your pain
Get you on your feet again.
Relax.
I'll need some information first.
Just the basic facts.
Can you show me where it hurts?

There is no pain you are receding
A distant ship smoke on the horizon.
You are only coming through in waves.
Your lips move but I can't hear what you're saying.

Danzig 05-11-2012 09:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by OldDog (Post 859931)
Question (and I'm not being snide)

If the laws being passed by states are unconstitutional, why is Obama affirming the issue as a states' rights issue? Given that he has come out in favor of gay marriage, why doesn't he (his DOJ) challenge them?

he's trying to have his cake and eat it too? not sure the doj can challenge, i think it's up to the supreme court to declare a law unconstitutional. it seems whenever a pol in the federal system doesn't want to choose a side, he says 'states rights' and runs like a scalded cat.
states can have votes all they wish to placate the majority, and then the courts strike them down and everyone can complaing about legislating from the bench. it's just a game we play.

Danzig 05-11-2012 09:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Coach Pants (Post 859934)
He wasn't saying sh.it. Nothing will change. He was pandering to the idiots who support gay marriage that don't have the capacity to decipher bulls.hit.

And there are plenty of them.

:tro:

Antitrust32 05-11-2012 10:20 AM

Bristol Palin, once again proves you do not need brains to be in the public eye:

She continued, "In this case, it would've been helpful for him to explain to Malia and Sasha that while her friends parents are no doubt lovely people, that's not a reason to change thousands of years of thinking about marriage. Or that – as great as her friends may be – we know that in general kids do better growing up in a mother/father home. Ideally, fathers help shape their kids' worldview."



So I guess she is saying her own kid sucks. I love that a dumb **** who was knocked up as a teen and hates her baby daddy would like to give relationship and child rearing advice.

I'd point to the study where it proves children of lesbian couples have higher grades and get in less trouble at school, but I really dont believe same sex couples raise their children better than hetero couples. It's all about how much the parent gets involved in their childs life and teaches them right from wrong.. and inforces rules. Whether they be Mom and Dad, Mom and Momma or Dad and Daddy. I know single parent homes where their kid is loved and taught as well as anyone I know.

jms62 05-11-2012 10:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Antitrust32 (Post 859963)
Bristol Palin, once again proves you do not need brains to be in the public eye:

She continued, "In this case, it would've been helpful for him to explain to Malia and Sasha that while her friends parents are no doubt lovely people, that's not a reason to change thousands of years of thinking about marriage. Or that – as great as her friends may be – we know that in general kids do better growing up in a mother/father home. Ideally, fathers help shape their kids' worldview."



So I guess she is saying her own kid sucks. I love that a dumb **** who was knocked up as a teen and hates her baby daddy would like to give relationship and child rearing advice.

I'd point to the study where it proves children of lesbian couples have higher grades and get in less trouble at school, but I really dont believe same sex couples raise their children better than hetero couples. It's all about how much the parent gets involved in their childs life and teaches them right from wrong.. and inforces rules. Whether they be Mom and Dad, Mom and Momma or Dad and Daddy. I know single parent homes where their kid is loved and taught as well as anyone I know.

I absolutely believe they raise their children better. They actually make the decision to have children becuase they want them. I believe they work harder because they have made that decision.

MaTH716 05-11-2012 11:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jms62 (Post 859969)
I absolutely believe they raise their children better. They actually make the decision to have children becuase they want them. I believe they work harder because they have made that decision.

It's a fair point, but I just don't like the fact that all traditional married people are getting lumped in to the "accident baby" category.

My only question is how do the children of these couples deal with the eventual critics/teasing that will eventually come from other children (and very naive adults) along the way? I just wonder what the percentage is of these kids ending up psychological issues are.

jms62 05-11-2012 11:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MaTH716 (Post 859972)
It's a fair point, but I just don't like the fact that all traditional married people are getting lumped in to the "accident baby" category.

My only question is how do the children of these couples deal with the eventual critics/teasing that will eventually come from other children (and very naive adults) along the way? I just wonder what the percentage is of these kids ending up psychological issues are.

Didn't mean all Matt the gist of my point is that nearly all of them are in the game becuase they want to be and go to great lengths to be. And you make a great point about psychological issues but then again how many children in general are going to have issues when they realize that there are really winners and losers in the world, no partcipation trophies and mommy and daddy can't fix all their problems.

MaTH716 05-11-2012 11:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jms62 (Post 859977)
Didn't mean all Matt the gist of my point is that nearly all of them are in the game becuase they want to be and go to great lengths to be. And you make a great point about psychological issues but then again how many children in general are going to have issues when they realize that there are really winners and losers in the world, no partcipation trophies and mommy and daddy can't fix all their problems.

I remember when I was in grade school being embarrassed of my parents, but I think that's just all kids when they are young. I see it now with Little Matt and he's only 9. It's just a stage most kids go through, now throw in the gay wrench in and it probably magnifies it greatly. Like I said before, kids are ruthless and don't think before they speak (actually I know a lot of adults that do that too). They also gang up on the weak link and I'm afraid that some of these kids will constantly get picked on throughout their school years because they have 2 mothers or 2 fathers.

I have a gay cousin, her and her partner have a child. He's a cute kid, but I just wonder how he's going to be in the future.

I know most of these kids are loved greatly. Eventually one day down the road they will realize and appreciate the love and support their parents gave them, but I do worry about everything that happens in the middle of that time.

Antitrust32 05-11-2012 12:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MaTH716 (Post 859972)
It's a fair point, but I just don't like the fact that all traditional married people are getting lumped in to the "accident baby" category.

My only question is how do the children of these couples deal with the eventual critics/teasing that will eventually come from other children (and very naive adults) along the way? I just wonder what the percentage is of these kids ending up psychological issues are.

I'm not sure in today's age it is that bad. Probably would have been worse years ago.

I think actual gay kids get teased a lot at school, but I dont hear of it much with kids whose parents are gay.

Though the teasing reflects poorly on the parenting of the kids whose hetrosexual parents did not teach them it is wrong to make fun of people who may be different than you, or have a different family than you.. not on the kids being teased themselves.

I would bet money that the percentage of kids who have psychological issues with gay parents are right around the same percentage of kids who grow up in a traditional family. Now the gay children, I do think they have a higher percentage because they have to deal with the fact that some people dont respect them and are too young to understand that it is not their fault.

Antitrust32 05-11-2012 12:14 PM

When I was in highschool 11-14 years ago, I do not remember kids being teased because of gay parents or dead beat dads. One kid who had lesbian moms was one of the most popular kids in high school and now is a music industry mogul and making tons of money at like 27 years old. Though the few kids who you could tell were gay, or may not have been socially outgoing were certainly teased.


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