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GPK 03-06-2007 06:20 PM

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Originally Posted by SentToStud
lmao. he looks happy to be there.


doesn't he though B???

some real characters out there looping for a living, no doubt.

magic_idol 03-06-2007 06:59 PM

When i was with the bike clubs you would walk into a pub & within half a hour you would have at least 3 to 5 women around you not for you but because of Bad boy syndrome, Sounds great but after a few years you really get sick of it plus you can never have a seriuos relationship cause way to much temptation , you party from dusk to dawn 4 days a week & in the end it really screws with ya health & Head:cool: .
Give me Borin old horses & a Boring old lifestyle anyday:D

Samarta 03-06-2007 07:28 PM

Damn, how in the world did I miss this thread?!?!?!? I just read it all and let me tell you there is some funny stuff. Man if this entire group ever got together it would be a riot.....But Kev, I gotta ask you.....and let me preface this by saying you know that I'm a phone call away. If you ever need anything I'm there....so next time you're getting jacked by a golf bag, don't do anything that could ruin your bad boy image, give Sam a call and I will come to Roanoke and put it back on the display for you....:D

GenuineRisk 03-06-2007 10:39 PM

Kev, you weren't kidding; this is a great thread (it was great chatting tonight, by the way, as always! The future love of your life will be lucky to get such a great conversationalist. :) )

I think the Bad Boy thing is something young women go through- maybe it's that there's something so very attractive in someone who doesn't seem to care whether he has you or not (so if you can just get him to fall in love with you, you've really accomplished something!), maybe it's the dark, sad secret you just know he's hiding (because you want to be Florence Nightengale, oh yes you do), maybe it's the "He'd be so great if just this one thing was fixed" (because you've confused a boyfriend with a fixer-upper apartment). And all that unattainability makes your heart pound (I read somewhere that infatuation is the intense desire to spend all your time around someone you know nothing about, and I think that's as good a description as I've ever read).

BUT- I think sometimes (many times) what we're attracted to on a gut, irrational level is perhaps not what is good for us, because, especially for women, on some level, we're trying to fix something else from our lives through our relationship. Lord knows I was going against some bad habits when I started dating my husband.

Kev, Randall, you guys are undervalued stocks. As the girls around you get a little older, and a little more tired of breaking their own hearts, you'll get grabbed up by someone who knows a good thing when she sees one and her friends will spend the rest of their lives saying, "Why can't I find someone like him?" Well, you could have, sweetie. But you were too busy breaking your heart over Mr. Dark and Brooding. Tough.

As for why men want bimbos, I think some guys just don't really want a partnership; they want eye candy. Hey, if that makes them happy, fine. If they're rich, they'll be able to get their eye candy forever, and as long as they don't delude themselves into thinking their eye candy is with them for anything other than their wallets, they'll be perfectly happy (I'm always amused by rich old guys who are shocked, shocked, when their young wives cheat on them. Come on; you got her taut skin and she got a Mercedes. Don't think she's with you for your personality. You're not with her for hers).

Me, I figure we're all eventually going to end up old and wrinkly and I want to still like talking to the person I'm old and wrinkly with, since conversation may be all we'll have left! :)

"He's got his arm around every man's dream
And crumbs in his beard from the seafood special
Oh can't you see my world is falling apart?
Baby, please, leave the biker, leave the biker, break his heart."

GPK 03-06-2007 10:47 PM

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Originally Posted by GenuineRisk
Kev, you weren't kidding; this is a great thread (it was great chatting tonight, by the way, as always! The future love of your life will be lucky to get such a great conversationalist. :) )

I think the Bad Boy thing is something young women go through- maybe it's that there's something so very attractive in someone who doesn't seem to care whether he has you or not (so if you can just get him to fall in love with you, you've really accomplished something!), maybe it's the dark, sad secret you just know he's hiding (because you want to be Florence Nightengale, oh yes you do), maybe it's the "He'd be so great if just this one thing was fixed" (because you've confused a boyfriend with a fixer-upper apartment). And all that unattainability makes your heart pound (I read somewhere that infatuation is the intense desire to spend all your time around someone you know nothing about, and I think that's as good a description as I've ever read).

BUT- I think sometimes (many times) what we're attracted to on a gut, irrational level is perhaps not what is good for us, because, especially for women, on some level, we're trying to fix something else from our lives through our relationship. Lord knows I was going against some bad habits when I started dating my husband.

Kev, Randall, you guys are undervalued stocks. As the girls around you get a little older, and a little more tired of breaking their own hearts, you'll get grabbed up by someone who knows a good thing when she sees one and her friends will spend the rest of their lives saying, "Why can't I find someone like him?" Well, you could have, sweetie. But you were too busy breaking your heart over Mr. Dark and Brooding. Tough.

As for why men want bimbos, I think some guys just don't really want a partnership; they want eye candy. Hey, if that makes them happy, fine. If they're rich, they'll be able to get their eye candy forever, and as long as they don't delude themselves into thinking their eye candy is with them for anything other than their wallets, they'll be perfectly happy (I'm always amused by rich old guys who are shocked, shocked, when their young wives cheat on them. Come on; you got her taut skin and she got a Mercedes. Don't think she's with you for your personality. You're not with her for hers).

Me, I figure we're all eventually going to end up old and wrinkly and I want to still like talking to the person I'm old and wrinkly with, since conversation may be all we'll have left! :)

"He's got his arm around every man's dream
And crumbs in his beard from the seafood special
Oh can't you see my world is falling apart?
Baby, please, leave the biker, leave the biker, break his heart."



Thanks love...always a pleasure talking to you as well. Your actress voice leaves me breathless everytime:o

GenuineRisk 03-07-2007 08:11 AM

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Originally Posted by GPK
Thanks love...always a pleasure talking to you as well. Your actress voice leaves me breathless everytime:o

And your handicapper voice leaves me with an intense desire to take my paycheck and go to the OTB... ;)

GPK 03-07-2007 09:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Samarta
Damn, how in the world did I miss this thread?!?!?!? I just read it all and let me tell you there is some funny stuff. Man if this entire group ever got together it would be a riot.....But Kev, I gotta ask you.....and let me preface this by saying you know that I'm a phone call away. If you ever need anything I'm there....so next time you're getting jacked by a golf bag, don't do anything that could ruin your bad boy image, give Sam a call and I will come to Roanoke and put it back on the display for you....:D


I totally had the situation under control....it was a sneak attack. Other golf bags were distracting me and then he got me. It was a coup attempt to take over the golf shop...

GPK 03-07-2007 09:15 AM

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Originally Posted by GenuineRisk
And your handicapper voice leaves me with an intense desire to take my paycheck and go to the OTB... ;)


Save em all up for Toga opening:D

GenuineRisk 03-07-2007 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by GPK
Save em all up for Toga opening:D

I so cannot wait!

Cajungator26 03-07-2007 11:31 AM

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Originally Posted by GenuineRisk
I so cannot wait!

Me either... I'm pretty sure I'm going to go. I'm waiting for Southwest to lower their fares and then I'll book my flight and car. :cool:

magic_idol 03-07-2007 09:56 PM

:cool: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXEg37FwTto :cool:

hoovesupsideyourhead 03-07-2007 10:10 PM

mrs hooves luckly bagged a winner....:D :D :D

SCUDSBROTHER 03-20-2007 11:47 AM

Cajungator...........How ya like this song by a badboy? LOL....You know ya got a good voice when ya can get away with these lyrics.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vuKQ-N6HSWI

Cajungator26 03-20-2007 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by SCUDSBROTHER
Cajungator...........How ya like this song by a badboy? LOL....You know ya got a good voice when ya can get away with these lyrics.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vuKQ-N6HSWI

Wish I could listen... youtube is blocked at work. UGH.

SCUDSBROTHER 03-20-2007 12:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Cajungator26
Wish I could listen... youtube is blocked at work. UGH.

"Girl take it slow........I'm a let you decide the tempo.."-Nelson de Freitas

Cajungator26 03-20-2007 12:15 PM

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Originally Posted by SCUDSBROTHER
"Girl take it slow........I'm a let you decide the tempo.."-Nelson de Freitas

So many ways to go with that one, Scuds... wow. :eek: :D

jman5581 03-20-2007 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by SCUDSBROTHER
"Girl take it slow........I'm a let you decide the tempo.."-Nelson de Freitas


That's just a horrible, horrible song. Hope it never makes it off of youtube.

jman5581 03-20-2007 12:32 PM

I mean, who tries to rhyme 9 syllables with 4? :rolleyes:

SCUDSBROTHER 03-20-2007 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by jman5581
I mean, who tries to rhyme 9 syllables with 4? :rolleyes:

Actually,he will do just fine with that particular song.His voice,and the melody of the verse are both excellent.The lyrics are not gunna kill that song.If you have a good enough melody(and this does) then the song will be successful.If it had a better chorus,and lyrics,then it could crossover.The reason I put it on here,is because it is a beautiful melody,and a very pure voice.Obviously,he is a badboy.They wanted to know why that women like badboys.......Well,I am pretty sure that with his voice,he can seduce almost any of them.


Cajungirl,the link I am gunna post will let you hear enough of the song,but the video is actually an important part (cute couple........again this is a conflicting thing...a pretty videoto go with badboy lyrics.) The song is called "DEEPER".................LOL.

http://cdbaby.com/cd/nelsonfreitas

jman5581 03-20-2007 01:23 PM

I agree with you about the voice, but I think the message you're trying to get across is better explained by Track 12!!! Guy's got a one-track mind!!! You gotta love it. I don't see much mystique to him, but I like some of the beats and melodies. Thanks for sharin'.


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