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Riot 02-29-2012 09:15 PM

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Originally Posted by GenuineRisk (Post 841936)
This is pure woo speculation on my part, but I do think there's a difference in brain wiring for people prone to addiction, ....

That's what the medical community thinks. Addiction and/or disease. See Danzigs Wiki source.

stonegossard 02-29-2012 09:20 PM

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Originally Posted by v j stauffer (Post 842187)
Alcoholism and Cancer are both diseases.

Don't take my word for it.

You're a learned person.

Do the research.


Sorry Vic...I don't buy it. You want to call them diseases...fine. One disease you have absolutely no control of getting it, the other "disease" you have complete control of getting it. You should be ashamed of grouping them together as similar.

Baze had a huge career in front of him and threw it all away for booze. He's weak...end of story.

Honu 02-29-2012 09:27 PM

There is a point when people are alcoholics that even if they know they should stop they cant. Even if they can make up their mind to do it their body cannot physically do it because it could kill them. Its worse than heroin as far as its toll on the body. I do believe some people are more disposed to addiction than others just like some people's bodies are more prone to illness.

Honu 02-29-2012 09:30 PM

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Originally Posted by stonegossard (Post 842197)
Sorry Vic...I don't buy it. You want to call them diseases...fine. One disease you have absolutely no control of getting it, the other "disease" you have complete control of getting it. You should be ashamed of grouping them together as similar.

Baze had a huge career in front of him and threw it all away for booze. He's weak...end of story.

So people who get skin cancer and die from it deserve what they got because they didnt wear sunscreen or stay out of sun? They had a choice you know.

dagolfer33 02-29-2012 09:36 PM

They just had one of the most horrific spills I have ever seen at Charles Town. Holy shiat.:eek:

8 of 9 horses and riders down.

stonegossard 02-29-2012 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Honu (Post 842199)
So people who get skin cancer and die from it deserve what they got because they didnt wear sunscreen or stay out of sun? They had a choice you know.


Yeah, that's exactly what I meant. People who get any kind of cancer get choices after they are first diagnosed. They have a choice if they want it to go away...they have complete control. All they have to do is stop having cancer. Very similar to alcoholics who have the choice to stop after they become alcoholics.

Congrats....you are now a coupled entry with Stauffer in the next running of the Douchebag Derby.

pointman 02-29-2012 09:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Riot (Post 842196)
That's what the medical community thinks. Addiction and/or disease. See Danzigs Wiki source.

That is interesting considering that you insulted another poster just the other day as "an alcoholic loser."

v j stauffer 02-29-2012 09:52 PM

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Originally Posted by stonegossard (Post 842197)
Sorry Vic...I don't buy it. You want to call them diseases...fine. One disease you have absolutely no control of getting it, the other "disease" you have complete control of getting it. You should be ashamed of grouping them together as similar.

Baze had a huge career in front of him and threw it all away for booze. He's weak...end of story.

Not recognizing alcoholism as a disease is like assuming that the mentally ill just need to "snap out of it."

Defined:

In a 1992 JAMA article, the Joint Committee of the National Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence, Inc. (NCADD) and the American Society of Addiction Medicine (ASAM) published this definition for alcoholism:
“Alcoholism is a primary chronic disease with genetic, psychosocial and environmental factors influencing its development and manifestations. The disease is often progressive and fatal. It is characterized by impaired control over drinking, preoccupation with the drug alcohol, use of alcohol despite adverse consequences, and distortions in thinking, mostly denial. Each of these symptoms may be continuous or periodic.”

v j stauffer 02-29-2012 10:08 PM

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Originally Posted by stonegossard (Post 842197)
Sorry Vic...I don't buy it. You want to call them diseases...fine. One disease you have absolutely no control of getting it, the other "disease" you have complete control of getting it. You should be ashamed of grouping them together as similar.

Baze had a huge career in front of him and threw it all away for booze. He's weak...end of story.

Actually many will say that humans do have control over getting many forms of cancer and other diseases.

It's a medical certainty that smoking makes a person much much more likely to get lung cancer and or emphysema.

Chewing tobacco greatly enhances ones chances of being afflicted with throat cancer.

Bad diet and obesity contribute to diabetes.

I could list a myriad of others.

Your statement is preposterous.

Mawhip 02-29-2012 10:15 PM

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Originally Posted by v j stauffer (Post 842207)
Actually many will say that humans do have control over getting many forms of cancer and other diseases.

It's a medical certainty that smoking makes a person much much more likely to get lung cancer and or emphysema.

Chewing tobacco greatly enhances ones chances of being afflicted with throat cancer.

Bad diet and obesity contribute to diabetes.

I could list a myriad of others.

Your statement is preposterous.

I would have thought you may have commented on another subject other than Cancer and Diabetes today.

Honu 02-29-2012 10:27 PM

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Originally Posted by stonegossard (Post 842201)
Yeah, that's exactly what I meant. People who get any kind of cancer get choices after they are first diagnosed. They have a choice if they want it to go away...they have complete control. All they have to do is stop having cancer. Very similar to alcoholics who have the choice to stop after they become alcoholics.

Congrats....you are now a coupled entry with Stauffer in the next running of the Douchebag Derby.

F U you uncompassionate jackwagon ......you are so stupid it amazes me you can even type.

banter 02-29-2012 11:34 PM

While at Del Mar the first week of August 2011, I took special notice of Tyler. I disagree with those who said he was riding poorly.

He was doing the best he could without the best of mounts, which is all one can ask of or expect from a rider trying to rebuild his career after returning from an injury. His horses often ran better than it appeared they would on paper. And he loved on those horses.

Another thing--we know that his injury threatened him with blindness and that surgery was required to repair his eye sockets and such. We also know that his nose was broken and that additional surgery was required to fix his nose. Does anyone know, can anyone confirm, whether or not he also required reconstructive surgery on his face? It's not that I could see scars; his skin and features looked fine. It's just that he didn't look like the Tyler I recognized before the accident. His face seems distinctly changed--not simply his nose but his mouth and the angles of his cheeks and so on.

At any rate, I think he's an amazingly talented jockey who has been through hell the past year, and I wish him every success in whatever he decides to do with his life. If that decision means coming back as a jockey, then godspeed to him. He has my support and my respect.

Coach Pants 03-01-2012 05:41 AM

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Originally Posted by v j stauffer (Post 842207)
Actually many will say that humans do have control over getting many forms of cancer and other diseases.

It's a medical certainty that smoking makes a person much much more likely to get lung cancer and or emphysema.

Chewing tobacco greatly enhances ones chances of being afflicted with throat cancer.

Bad diet and obesity contribute to diabetes.

I could list a myriad of others.

Your statement is preposterous.

People get addicted to high fructose corn syrup, aspartame and msg. You're not going to see too much government funded research on it. It's a soft kill.

When you feel sorry for people with food addictions and defend them like alchys then I'll believe your feigned outrage. Until then shut the f.uck up. You've ruined a thread because you have to overblow everything.

stonegossard 03-01-2012 06:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Honu (Post 842210)
F U you uncompassionate jackwagon ......you are so stupid it amazes me you can even type.


Bite Me

pba1817 03-01-2012 07:04 AM

For those of you who do believe alcoholism is a disease and not a choice, where do you draw the line?

Is gambling a disease? Is smoking a disease? Is drug abuse a disease? Is being obese a disease? Is masturbation a disease? Is being religious a disease? Is picking boogers a disease? Is bad driving a disease? Is doing any activity that may cause you, your family, or society pain, a disease?

The list could be endless....

Our society has become so co-dependent in virtually every aspect of our lives that NO ONE takes responsibility for their own choices and actions.

It is pretty sickening.

Danzig 03-01-2012 07:09 AM

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Originally Posted by v j stauffer (Post 842204)
Not recognizing alcoholism as a disease is like assuming that the mentally ill just need to "snap out of it." Defined:

In a 1992 JAMA article, the Joint Committee of the National Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence, Inc. (NCADD) and the American Society of Addiction Medicine (ASAM) published this definition for alcoholism:
“Alcoholism is a primary chronic disease with genetic, psychosocial and environmental factors influencing its development and manifestations. The disease is often progressive and fatal. It is characterized by impaired control over drinking, preoccupation with the drug alcohol, use of alcohol despite adverse consequences, and distortions in thinking, mostly denial. Each of these symptoms may be continuous or periodic.”

didn't see the connection when genuine risk said that earlier in the thread, and still don't see it now. because someone has an opinion about one doesn't mean there's a correlation to the other. posting the definition again probably won't change minds either, since everyone had the ability to read further down in that link i posted that shows not even the entire medical community agrees that alcoholism is a disease. if a trained professional disagrees, why are you so shocked that posters here have their own thoughts on the matter?

pba1817 03-01-2012 07:15 AM

Alcoholism is a lifestyle choice, a surroundings choice, and ultimately an access choice.

Example- Take an alcoholic(Josh Hamilton) and move him to Saudi Arabia. Miraculously, he will be immediately "cured".

Now, lets take a cancer patient(Gary Carter) and move him to a country who prohibits cancer....

GPK 03-01-2012 08:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pba1817 (Post 842226)
For those of you who do believe alcoholism is a disease and not a choice, where do you draw the line?

Is gambling a disease? Is smoking a disease? Is drug abuse a disease? Is being obese a disease? Is masturbation a disease? Is being religious a disease? Is picking boogers a disease? Is bad driving a disease? Is doing any activity that may cause you, your family, or society pain, a disease?

The list could be endless....

Our society has become so co-dependent in virtually every aspect of our lives that NO ONE takes responsibility for their own choices and actions.

It is pretty sickening.


You think alcoholism is a choice? You think someone would choose to be an alcoholic?

Oaklawnfan 03-01-2012 08:51 AM

Being a sober alcoholic, a prostate cancer survivor, open-heart surgery patient with an artificial heart valve and pacemaker, currently rehabilitating from a brain hemorrhage stroke I believe that part of treatment is approaching maladies as diseases. I drank most of my life with few major problems except for some bad handicapping then it all changed one day. There's a long line and distinguished lineage of alcoholics in my family history. Whatever you call it, I applauded any successful treatment over ego that saves lives.

GPK 03-01-2012 09:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pba1817 (Post 842228)
Alcoholism is a lifestyle choice, a surroundings choice, and ultimately an access choice.

Example- Take an alcoholic(Josh Hamilton) and move him to Saudi Arabia. Miraculously, he will be immediately "cured".

Now, lets take a cancer patient(Gary Carter) and move him to a country who prohibits cancer....

Speaking only from my own experience, alcoholism is not a lifestyle choice. I would have never in a million years chosen to be an alcoholic, but I am. Trust me, I would give my left nut to able to drink like a normal person. I sat with my good buddies MaTH and BT at dinner one night last week in Tampa, and watched as they both had 2 beers with dinner? 2 Beers?!? are you kidding me? My mind can't grasp the concept of just 2 beers. I have never been able to have "just 2 beers." Once alcohol enters my system, it just craves more and more. It's the way both my mind and body are wired. I quit drinking for 3 months one time after a car accident and thought for sure that I was cured and that I didn't have a problem. I went out one night with some friends and got drunk...and then got drunk again the next night and the night after that, etc...inside of 1 month of starting to drink again, I was shotgunning beers at 10am in the morning at work, just so I would quit shaking and so that I could make it through the day. You really think someone would CHOOSE to live like that? Come on...you're better than that. I could pick up a drink today, and nothing in the world will have changed. My only option is 100% abstention. I will always be an alcoholic, even if I manage to stay sober the rest of my life.

Danzig 03-01-2012 09:15 AM

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Originally Posted by GPK (Post 842240)
Speaking only from my own experience, alcoholism is not a lifestyle choice. I would have never in a million years chosen to be an alcoholic, but I am. Trust me, I would give my left nut to able to drink like a normal person. I sat with my good buddies MaTH and BT at dinner one night last week in Tampa, and watched as they both had 2 beers with dinner? 2 Beers?!? are you kidding me? My mind can't grasp the concept of just 2 beers. I have never been able to have "just 2 beers." Once alcohol enters my system, it just craves more and more. It's the way both my mind and body are wired. I quit drinking for 3 months one time after a car accident and thought for sure that I was cured and that I didn't have a problem. I went out one night with some friends and got drunk...and then got drunk again the next night and the night after that, etc...inside of 1 month of starting to drink again, I was shotgunning beers at 10am in the morning at work, just so I would quit shaking and so that I could make it through the day. You really think someone would CHOOSE to live like that? Come on...you're better than that. I could pick up a drink today, and nothing in the world will have changed. My only option is 100% abstention. I will always be an alcoholic, even if I manage to stay sober the rest of my life.


i don't think that alcoholism itself is a choice. however, you've chosen to stay away from alcohol-that is where choice comes in. i'm glad you're able to stay away from it, altho i'm sure it's difficult at times.

Rileyoriley 03-01-2012 09:26 AM

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Originally Posted by GPK (Post 842240)
Speaking only from my own experience, alcoholism is not a lifestyle choice. I would have never in a million years chosen to be an alcoholic, but I am. Trust me, I would give my left nut to able to drink like a normal person. I sat with my good buddies MaTH and BT at dinner one night last week in Tampa, and watched as they both had 2 beers with dinner? 2 Beers?!? are you kidding me? My mind can't grasp the concept of just 2 beers. I have never been able to have "just 2 beers." Once alcohol enters my system, it just craves more and more. It's the way both my mind and body are wired. I quit drinking for 3 months one time after a car accident and thought for sure that I was cured and that I didn't have a problem. I went out one night with some friends and got drunk...and then got drunk again the next night and the night after that, etc...inside of 1 month of starting to drink again, I was shotgunning beers at 10am in the morning at work, just so I would quit shaking and so that I could make it through the day. You really think someone would CHOOSE to live like that? Come on...you're better than that. I could pick up a drink today, and nothing in the world will have changed. My only option is 100% abstention. I will always be an alcoholic, even if I manage to stay sober the rest of my life.


You WILL manage to stay sober Kev. You have a little girl to take care of now. She needs you.:)

GPK 03-01-2012 09:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Danzig (Post 842246)
i don't think that alcoholism itself is a choice. however, you've chosen to stay away from alcohol-that is where choice comes in. i'm glad you're able to stay away from it, altho i'm sure it's difficult at times.

It's very difficult when you're surrounded by deranged drunk degenerates that are yelling "rebuff, rebuff" at a 3-5 shot that Corey Nakatani is riding and we have a $216 show ticket on him.:D

It can be difficult at times, but the thing that always wins out in the end for me, is that I know Amelia doesn't deserve a drunk for a daddy. I know I would be useless to her as a father, if I was to ever drink again. I have accepted the fact that I can't drink like a normal person, although normal people don't drink normal to me.:D

Rudeboyelvis 03-02-2012 11:38 PM

Just got a retweet by Simon Bray - unfounded rumor that T Baze is in ICU at a Monrovia area hospital..

:(

banter 03-03-2012 01:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Rudeboyelvis (Post 842772)
Just got a retweet by Simon Bray - unfounded rumor that T Baze is in ICU at a Monrovia area hospital..

:(

Omg, why?

Sad news indeed.

Coach Pants 03-03-2012 06:54 AM

Jamie Kisely had the original tweet.

http://twitter.com/#!/JamieKisely

Then The Knight Sky tweeted about it. Followed by BoBike1 who was re-tweeted by Simon Bray. Confirmed by jballs

jballscalls 03-03-2012 08:30 AM

I'm friends with many northwest Baze family members and they were all asking for prayers last night and said he was hospitalized. Hopefully he can get past this and beat his demons.

Left Bank 03-03-2012 11:09 AM

Why is he in ICU?
What happened?

Rudeboyelvis 03-04-2012 12:05 PM

Update:

http://www.drf.com/news/tyler-baze-e...-rehab-shortly

Danzig 03-04-2012 02:54 PM

hope he uses this as impetus to seek recovery-for his wife, his family, but mostly for himself.
he's lucky he made it thru this most recent episode. a co-workers 40 year old son sadly did not. his funeral was yesterday.

GPK 03-04-2012 05:25 PM

I'm bet he's glad he choose to be an alcoholic.:rolleyes:

Danzig 03-04-2012 05:29 PM

bloodhorse headline said he fell at home. then, in the body of the article, they said 'after a spill'. never saw a fall at home categorized as a spill before!

2MinsToPost 03-04-2012 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by GPK (Post 842240)
Speaking only from my own experience, alcoholism is not a lifestyle choice. I would have never in a million years chosen to be an alcoholic, but I am. Trust me, I would give my left nut to able to drink like a normal person. I sat with my good buddies MaTH and BT at dinner one night last week in Tampa, and watched as they both had 2 beers with dinner? 2 Beers?!? are you kidding me? My mind can't grasp the concept of just 2 beers. I have never been able to have "just 2 beers." Once alcohol enters my system, it just craves more and more. It's the way both my mind and body are wired. I quit drinking for 3 months one time after a car accident and thought for sure that I was cured and that I didn't have a problem. I went out one night with some friends and got drunk...and then got drunk again the next night and the night after that, etc...inside of 1 month of starting to drink again, I was shotgunning beers at 10am in the morning at work, just so I would quit shaking and so that I could make it through the day. You really think someone would CHOOSE to live like that? Come on...you're better than that. I could pick up a drink today, and nothing in the world will have changed. My only option is 100% abstention. I will always be an alcoholic, even if I manage to stay sober the rest of my life.

Exactly. Coming, as you know, from another Alcoholic in recovery.

Merlinsky 03-04-2012 10:17 PM

To GPK and 2MinsToPost, best wishes on your continuing recovery.

Given everything that's happened to the Baze family recently and not knowing any of them personally, it's hard to find words to ease the burden of what they're going through now. My thoughts and prayers are with them and Tyler. I hope we see him back and healthy soon or at least as soon as he's able to be.

my miss storm cat 03-05-2012 09:25 PM

I like some of you so much so please don't be offended cause i don't mean anyone here, just in a general sense...I am so sick of it all.

Before anyone wants to tell me I don't understand no - I do. My dad is and was an alchoholic and my sister is currently in hospital number-God-knows what. She will go to rehab, stay sober for a year or so, and it will come full circle and go round and round like it has year after year.

Maybe it's bleeding heart burnout. Who knows.

I really liked Michael Baze so much, I like Tyler and wish him well as I always did with Kieren, PVal, etc.

There comes a point though.

People who get to blame it for everything, just like people who are total **** ups but who blame Mommy and Daddy....

Enough.

Yes it's a disease BUT one that begins with a choice.

I feel sorry for people who horrible random diseases... who never had a say about their death sentence.

Alcoholics, especially the self-absorbed ones who think everyone cares about their daily success in overcoming their gasp sickness?

I wish everyone well but really... we all have things we deal with. You are not the only ones.

GPK 03-05-2012 10:00 PM

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Originally Posted by my miss storm cat (Post 843639)
I like some of you so much so please don't be offended cause i don't mean anyone here, just in a general sense...I am so sick of it all.

Before anyone wants to tell me I don't understand no - I do. My dad is and was an alchoholic and my sister is currently in hospital number-God-knows what. She will go to rehab, stay sober for a year or so, and it will come full circle and go round and round like it has year after year.

Maybe it's bleeding heart burnout. Who knows.

I really liked Michael Baze so much, I like Tyler and wish him well as I always did with Kieren, PVal, etc.

There comes a point though.

People who get to blame it for everything, just like people who are total **** ups but who blame Mommy and Daddy....

Enough.

Yes it's a disease BUT one that begins with a choice.

I feel sorry for people who horrible random diseases... who never had a say about their death sentence.

Alcoholics, especially the self-absorbed ones who think everyone cares about their daily success in overcoming their gasp sickness?

I wish everyone well but really... we all have things we deal with. You are not the only ones.

You lost me with this one. I don't understand what you are saying.

gamblin4ever 03-06-2012 12:40 AM

1 drink too many, 2 drinks not enough.

57rick 03-06-2012 06:24 AM

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Originally Posted by my miss storm cat (Post 843639)
I like some of you so much so please don't be offended cause i don't mean anyone here, just in a general sense...I am so sick of it all.

Before anyone wants to tell me I don't understand no - I do. My dad is and was an alchoholic and my sister is currently in hospital number-God-knows what. She will go to rehab, stay sober for a year or so, and it will come full circle and go round and round like it has year after year.

Maybe it's bleeding heart burnout. Who knows.

I really liked Michael Baze so much, I like Tyler and wish him well as I always did with Kieren, PVal, etc.

There comes a point though.

People who get to blame it for everything, just like people who are total **** ups but who blame Mommy and Daddy....

Enough.

Yes it's a disease BUT one that begins with a choice.

I feel sorry for people who horrible random diseases... who never had a say about their death sentence.

Alcoholics, especially the self-absorbed ones who think everyone cares about their daily success in overcoming their gasp sickness?

I wish everyone well but really... we all have things we deal with. You are not the only ones.


It does not begin with choice. The alcoholic cannot differentiate between the true & the false. It's a 3 fold illness; mental, physical and spiritual.
An alcoholic has physical allergy to alcohol. Please read the Doctors Opinion in the book Alcoholics Annonomous. I always told myself I was going in the bar for a couple (that's the lie I told myself). Never once had a couple. If I was able to tell myself the truth, I would have thought, I'll go in the bar, have about 12 beers then about 10 gin & tonics and wake up god knows where.

Calzone Lord 03-06-2012 09:26 AM

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Originally Posted by 57rick (Post 843656)
I'll go in the bar, have about 12 beers then about 10 gin & tonics and wake up god knows where.

Whoever is serving you that 22nd drink of the night is doing no one a favor.

57rick 03-06-2012 09:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Calzone Lord (Post 843695)
Whoever is serving you that 22nd drink of the night is doing no one a favor.

If that bartender shut me off, I'd find someone who would.
Better yet, buy a bottle for myself.


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