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and funny, those times i have come to your defense on here in the past, i bet you didn't think i was ignorant and insensitive. appreciate that. |
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"You just have to make up your mind" Good chance those are the 8 most assinine words ever posted on any message board about any subject. Unbelieveable! |
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There are plenty of people that can't stop drinking. It does seem like a simple concept - just stop drinking. It doesn't work that way. Some of us have been turned upside down by somone who just could not stop drinking. |
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Glad you chimed in here Trackrat.
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forgive my being so asinine; make no mistake, i do hope tyler is able to pull himself out of his mess. it always boggles my mind when people waste their life. tyler's in a bad spot, and i do hope he gets out of it. |
My brother died in 2005 from drinking, he couldnt stop, not mentally or physically. My birth father is also an alcoholic as well as another brother who if it wasnt that he was incarcirated for 12 years would most likely be dead as well. For some reason my oldest brother and I are not like the other two in that we can drink but its not like it is or was with the other two.
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Humor at the expense of others is timeless. The internet was a lovely place. You'll have internet 2.0 soon where speech is monitored and censored so your fragile mind can be at ease. It was a great day. Sunny and 70. |
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Alcoholism is not a disease, it is a choice.
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Not recognizing alcoholism as a disease is like assuming that the mentally ill just need to "snap out of it."
Defined: In a 1992 JAMA article, the Joint Committee of the National Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence, Inc. (NCADD) and the American Society of Addiction Medicine (ASAM) published this definition for alcoholism: “Alcoholism is a primary chronic disease with genetic, psychosocial and environmental factors influencing its development and manifestations. The disease is often progressive and fatal. It is characterized by impaired control over drinking, preoccupation with the drug alcohol, use of alcohol despite adverse consequences, and distortions in thinking, mostly denial. Each of these symptoms may be continuous or periodic.” There's a reason alcoholics who have stopped drinking are called "recovering." it's because they'll never be "cured." They won't ever be able to drink as someone who is not alcoholic can drink. It's a disease. My father is drinking himself to death. It's an awful thing to watch. And I spent years angry about it. But, for whatever reason, I was spared the addictive need for alcohol my dad has. Which means I can't ever understand what's going on in his head. I can't judge, because I will never truly understand. |
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If you posted a picture of an aids baby would that be funny and timeless? Alcoholism is a disease. To belittle someone, especially in a public forum for having a disease is the act of a heartless, hateful, coward. |
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The mentally ill can't go for years and years of sanity before falling off the wagon.
I think almost all people have weaknesses and vices. I battle with poor sleep habits. I battle hard with temptation to eat junk foods constantly and I hate 99% of foods that are good for me. Those two things will kill you as fast as drinking if you don't fight your urges. I've been diagnosed with Autism by doctors. I probably could have milked the Autism angle into getting feel good pills, or getting some type of cash benefits, or as a reason to leach off of my parents and sit around all day doing nothing with an excuse in my pocket. The Autisim is really just an extreme discomfort around people and a struggle to understand social cues and small talk. It's something you can accept you're not good at and try to improve. If a person can accept that they have a weakness for booze -- they should still be able to work to avoid drinking themselves to their grave. |
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I'm 42 and hardly sleep more than five hours a night on weeknights. |
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The weak defending the weak. Gfy, woman. |
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Another study found that only 25 percent of physicians believed that alcoholism is a disease. The majority believed alcoholism to be a social or psychological problem instead of a disease. (S.I. Mignon. Physicians' Perceptions of Alcoholics: The Disease Concept Reconsidered. Alcoholism Treatment Quarterly, 1996, v. 14, no. 4, pp. 33–45) A survey of physicians at an annual conference of the International Doctors in Alcoholics Anonymous reported that 80 percent believe that alcoholism is merely bad behavior instead of a disease. (Barrier to Treatment. Alcoholmd - Information About Alcohol and Medicine) Dr. Thomas R. Hobbs says that "Based on my experiences working in the addiction field for the past 10 years, I believe many, if not most, health care professionals still view alcohol addiction as a willpower or conduct problem and are resistant to look at it as a disease." (T.R. Hobbs. Managing Alcoholism as a Disease. Physician's News Digest, 1998.) Alcoholics Anonymous says that "Some professionals will tell you that alcoholism is a disease while others contend that it is a choice" and "some doctors will tell you that it is in fact a disease." (Alcoholics Anonymous. What Is Alcoholism? http://www.alcoholics-anonymous.com/...alcoholism.htm)[42]' http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disease..._of_alcoholism not trying to change minds here at all. just want to show that it's not a clearcut decision amongst physicians. which probably explains why some of us aren't sure it's so clear cut either. |
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I was primarily a beer drinker for over 20 years. I am ashamed to admit it but I dodged countless DUI's and I was lucky I never injured or killed anyone.
I will never know for sure but my life (and possibly others) may have been spared 13 years ago when I ran into the back of a car at a stop light after consuming over 24 beers over an 8 hour span. I never touched a drink again.....until two years ago. So far so good. It is not a battle for me. I need to stay away from a motor vehicle when i consume alchohol. I put the bottle down instantly after a wake up call. Others aren't as fortunate. I could be the same person I was 13 years ago from today forward. Everyone's experience is different. I'm responsible for my actions. Tyler Baze is responsible for his actions. Whether alchoholism is a disease or not doesn't spare Tyler his responsibility. |
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So of course Baze should face consequences. But to assume it's just a character flaw really ignores what alcoholism is. |
It's a disease! OMG put on the kid gloves.
You can prevent the disease through lifestyle choices. Personal responsibility is the best path for wellness. Stop making excuses for adults. The overreaction to those pictures is telling. Making fun of a drunk who is fortunate to be blessed with the ability to make a great living is equal to making fun of an aids baby? Ridiculous. |
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I have a father drinking himself to death, and I have an uncle who dried out over 20 years ago. My grandfather limited himself to one drink a day, but I know he spent his entire day looking to when he could have that 5PM cocktail. The Apocalypse could have come and he would have still demanded his 5PM drink. All three were alcoholics; they all experienced the disease differently. Like autism, it's a very poorly understood condition at this point in time. It won't always be, but assuming it's the same thing as a craving for chocolate doesn't help us deal with it, any more than calling severely autistic kids retarded helps them. |
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I think what boggles the minds of non-alcoholics is that it seems so simple- just stop drinking, right? But in the mind of an alcoholic it just doesn't work that way. This is pure woo speculation on my part, but I do think there's a difference in brain wiring for people prone to addiction, and sometimes I wonder if it's more likely in people with a higher tolerance for adrenaline/stress. My dad is amazing in a crisis. Amazing. Calm, clear-headed, insightful. It's everyday life he can't handle. And when it comes to jockeys, these are men and women who are happy to get on a fragile animal traveling at 30 miles an hour, knowing they are going to break bones several times in their career. You have to be an adrenaline junkie to want to do that. |
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The frustrating thing being that it is possible to arrest the disease by stopping drinking, which is the easiest thing in the world for those who don't feel a compulsion to drink. There are those who would say you're not an alcoholic at all if you're capable of drinking now, and those who would say you're a functional alcoholic, which is to say it's not interfering with your life. As far as I'm concerned, as long as you're not hurting anyone, it's no one's business but yours whether you're drinking or not. Baze, of course, is actually hurting people, and needs to be held responsible for his actions, but the state of being an alcoholic is not an action. Either way, I do hope he gets help. Bailey said that after he stopped drinking, it was like races were suddenly in slow motion- with a clear head, he felt had all the time in the world to think about what he was going to do during the race. I always thought that was a neat image. |
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I think this could be true, and could explain why pro athletes get caught up in addictions. |
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I don't think alcholics can "just stop drinking" unless they're truly tough enough to do it and have a lot to gain by doing it. I think it's ok if they accept what they have and drink in cycles. Tyler Baze needs to do what Tyler Baze wants to do. If that's to run from the pressure of being a jockey and drink -- it's his life and that is what makes him happy. When he gets to the point where he accepts that he will be happier as a jockey -- he has a comeback attempt to motivate him. Sorry if my opinion seems or is ignorant. |
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Nice job with that whining letter where you completely threw Wrona under the bus. Funny coming from a guy who all the time preaches about the announcers "brotherhood". What's next? You gonna slash John Dooley's tires hoping he will miss work and get fired from Fair Grounds....then send a letter begging for the job? |
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Don't take my word for it. You're a learned person. Do the research. |
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