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Seattleallstar 03-12-2007 11:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Cajungator26
Thanks for this post. I hope that someday I'll meet my life partner too, but in the meantime, I just have to enjoy life for what it is. I've found that when you look too hard for what you want, you sometimes miss it. Sometimes the things that are REALLY the best for you are right in front of you all along, but you don't pay attention because you're too busy looking for what you THINK is the best thing. (Does that make any sense at all? :o )

Congrats on your 1 year anniversary coming up. :)


I used to always think that saying was BS, but after having a few things happen I very much agree with that statement now.

randallscott35 03-12-2007 12:03 PM

I think the relationships I've had have soured me more on it, but I really feel if you don't want kids, you shouldn't get married...I agree with the person who talked about being committed regardless of whether you are married or not. Dated the same girl for 6 years and never once was unfaithful in any way...SO committment should still be possible.

magic_idol 03-12-2007 01:01 PM

There is Nothing better it's like being on a rollercoaster ride without having to pay;)

GenuineRisk 03-12-2007 04:06 PM

On a related note:

http://www.nytimes.com/2007/03/11/us...8bd&ei=5087%0A

randallscott35 03-12-2007 04:09 PM

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Originally Posted by GenuineRisk

Occasionally, the need to separate does have to do with sex. Professor Rosenblatt said one older woman he interviewed said she had her own bedroom because, “I’ve paid my dues. I’m old enough that I don’t want to have sex at 1 a.m.”

OMG--that quote was unnecessary.

ArlJim78 03-12-2007 05:10 PM

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Originally Posted by magic_idol
There is Nothing better it's like being on a rollercoaster ride without having to pay;)

Gee, you make such a compelling case.:D

GenuineRisk 03-12-2007 05:18 PM

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Originally Posted by randallscott35
Occasionally, the need to separate does have to do with sex. Professor Rosenblatt said one older woman he interviewed said she had her own bedroom because, “I’ve paid my dues. I’m old enough that I don’t want to have sex at 1 a.m.”

OMG--that quote was unnecessary.

If she refers to sex as "dues" her husband must have been really bad in bed... yet another reason why one should test drive the merchandise before purchasing!

Cajungator26 03-12-2007 05:19 PM

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Originally Posted by GenuineRisk
If she refers to sex as "dues" her husband must have been really bad in bed... yet another reason why one should test drive the merchandise before purchasing!

LOL Nicole!!! :D

GenuineRisk 03-12-2007 06:29 PM

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Originally Posted by turdbucket67
the single life is good, you get to go out and bang different females with zero strings attached.. sometimes it takes to much effort to get some.. . the only thing good about marriage would be emotional support and and gettin lucky would happen all day everyday

That's two good things.

GenuineRisk 03-12-2007 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Cajungator26
LOL Nicole!!! :D

Seriously, I'm convinced the old Victorian thing about how women were not supposed to enjoy sex was just something Victorian men told their wives so the men wouldn't have to do any foreplay.

Cajungator26 03-12-2007 06:45 PM

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Originally Posted by GenuineRisk
Seriously, I'm convinced the old Victorian thing about how women were not supposed to enjoy sex was just something Victorian men told their wives so the men wouldn't have to do any foreplay.

I actually like the sex better than anything else.

Damn, here we go again... from marriage to sex. LOL

Cajungator26 03-12-2007 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by turdbucket67
times like this i wish i was married... looks like im hittin up the bars tonight

Most men would tell you that marriage actually ruins your sex life. Have fun at the bars! I'm hitting the hay before 10pm tonight. LOL

Pointg5 03-12-2007 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by turdbucket67
times like this i wish i was married... looks like im hittin up the bars tonight


Bucket

head to the West Side lots of easy skanks...

GPK 03-12-2007 07:50 PM

Married at 27....separated at 30 and divorced at 31. LOVED being a husband and and step-father and loved the idea of being a family.

But since then...I am jaded towards the whole thing. Most likely will never get married again. Don't need the drama.

randallscott35 03-12-2007 07:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Cajungator26
I actually like the sex better than anything else.

Damn, here we go again... from marriage to sex. LOL

Cajun, are you listed in the phone book?


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